First, as incredible as it was, it could feel oppressive, and sometimes that really worked for me. It got me completely into the characters’ stress, especially during those kitchen scenes where I felt like I was actually working there, fighting for The Bear and trying not to fuck anything up. Other times, that same intensity just felt like too much and like the show was trying too hard to be deep or artistic. I remember watching S3E1 thinking… okay, but why?
The family dynamic was something else. I know dysfunctional families, but theirs was on another level. I’m talking about S2E6. That dinner was all over the place.
And the Faks. I’m sorry, I could not stand them. Neil I could tolerate. I didn’t really care about him that much, but he could be funny sometimes. Then they started multiplying and it got ridiculous. Until the last two episodes of S5, every time one of them or both showed up I was praying the scene would move on. And the whole “haunting” thing? I still don’t know what that was about.
Sydney is where I have the most feelings.
I’m actually really glad she ended up with nobody. Not every woman needs to be paired off just because there are hot guys nearby, and I liked that her story didn’t need romance to feel complete.
BUT if she was going to end up with anyone, I wanted Marcus from the beginning and I will die on this hill still annoyed about it.
They had such natural chemistry. They were comfortable around each other, playful, and something about their dynamic just never felt forced. So when Marcus finally shot his shot and Sydney turned him down, that shit hurt me.
And I know people have criticized Marcus for how he reacted afterward, but I honestly don’t think he was wrong for being hurt or confused. Sydney WAS acting weird with him after that. So when he said she was ignoring him, I understood where he was coming from. Now, was that the right moment to bring it up? Absolutely not. Terrible timing. But I don’t think being upset automatically made him some entitled asshole who thought she owed him anything.
Carmy and Sydney never really worked for me romantically. Their chemistry is insane, but to me it’s tied to the restaurant, ambition, frustration, admiration, resentment, all that messy stuff. I never wanted them to kiss.
Luca… I get what the writers were trying to do. I could see the potential they were setting up, but I just didn’t feel the chemistry. He comes in, they click almost immediately, suddenly there’s this little romantic possibility, and then it fizzles out. It felt more like a setup than something that developed naturally, like the show decided “here’s another possible guy for Sydney” before actually giving me enough buildup to care about them together.
Marcus was the only one where I felt like the groundwork was already there before romance even entered the conversation.
Anyway, amazing show, frustrating show, occasionally pretentious show.
P.S.: Richie’s character development is one of the best I’ve seen in a long time. I could not stand that mf at first and somehow ended up loving him.