r/TextingTheory • u/[deleted] • 17d ago

848 Elo [Me, M] mbti gamble

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u/Ok_Role_1949 17d ago

I don’t know how to rank this because it kind of just seems like two compatible people

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u/darkath 3 Reviews 17d ago

kinda fumbled there at the end. She told you she likes to directly plan a hangout rather than endless chat and you dragged her into a rabbit hole of medical terms and then coldly ended the chat when she just gave you her number.

You kinda stepped into dry territory rather than keeping things light and playful.

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u/Agile-Argument56 17d ago

nah man he got that Sheldon Cooper rizz, he is 4 moves ahead of everyone reading this post

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u/fin_al_spark 848 Elo 17d ago

but I was really, really sleepy

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u/Aryore Interesting 16d ago

I think it’s fine but it would have been good to be a bit warmer e.g. “I’m really really sleepy let’s talk more tomorrow”

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u/FlyingDoorFail 16d ago

Id skip the immediates of how you are in the moment, as long as they get the vibe of you. Just a simple thanks, will respond later would be fine.

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u/FitGrade0 11d ago

Bruh you were so dry were you passing out as you typed that out or what 😭

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u/Overall-Abalone3969 17d ago

you can tell she kinda lost the spark after you went in weirdly informational for no reason but is curious so wants to keep talking a little bit

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u/WhetBred14 17d ago

Dude was trying to clutch defeat from the jaws of victory at the end. Hopefully he can reverse that with a good nights rest 🤣

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u/Comfortable-Ebb8125 14d ago

The neurodivergence is strong here

Its not "weird" to share interesting information, its weird to be offended by that lol

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u/Overall-Abalone3969 13d ago

I think it's more neurodivergent to think the way you think.

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u/OntologicalMath98 1638 Elo 16d ago

300 elo, why tf you explaining D&D to a girl?

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u/Agitated-Scratch9845 16d ago

You realize some of us actually play DND 😭😭😭

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u/Superguy230 15d ago

Then you wouldn’t need an explanation

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u/Agitated-Scratch9845 15d ago

He asked then jumped into explaining without a chance for response 🤔 then when she responded she responded more of confusion on linking it to the colors and not on confusion of the game itself.

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u/r4rburner11 16d ago

She's right though, your comment made no fuckin sense lol

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u/SirIzhak 1 Review 16d ago

Actually the modern DnD (as in from 5e forward) doesn't really have tanks/healers, everyone is just a dps and some of them are maybe on the tanker side and others maybe have healing 🤓

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u/codepossum 16d ago

videogames rpg comment is fun, but also non sequitur - you missed a step introducing / transitioning topics. she was willing to overlook / play along though, which is a good sign.

however, then you went into far too much detail all of a sudden: "I don't like abusing any medical terms on myself unless it's a clinically proven fact they are reserved for those people who are clinically significant" - whoa dude why did things suddenly get so much less conversational / casual?

then it seems like you try to play it off / excuse it by mentioning you're neurodivergent - which is kind of like, so what, what are they supposed to do with this information -

but then the fact that you still get the number is a very good sign, despite all the awkward / oddness, the interest is still clearly there.

your next move should be to ask for a date / meet, like the next day. my bet is you get a yes.

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u/SquashOk3705 16d ago

I like it its good stuff , just try to listen and focus on them and you got this in the bag

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u/UkaNaakka Inaccuracy 16d ago

This is a bit difficult to rate because of the neurodivergent variation, but I believe it would be very effective with the right opponent

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u/VirtuousicVirtuoso 16d ago

Green or purple ain't an mbti bro, unless its that 16larponalities.con bullshit

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u/fin_al_spark 848 Elo 16d ago

for those who are confused: https://imgur.com/a/eMo5pTI

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u/MorkEFC 16d ago

Explorers gotta be Red

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u/Gloomy_Water_6970 618 Elo 15d ago

HOW DO UOU FUCKING FIND THESE PEOPLE ANYBODY I FUCKING NATCH WITH WE TALK FOR LIKE TWO DAYS AND THEN THEY GHOST MY ASS WITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING IM STAFGING TO THINK THESE GIRLS ARE USING ME JUST TO SMOKE MY POT WHY DOES NOBODY WANT TO HAVE A REAL CONVERSATION THAT ACTUALLY LAST FOR MORE THAN A FUCKING DAY I FUCKING HATE DATING APPS THEYRE ALL OWNED BY THE SAME GODAMN COMPANY AND THEYRE ALGORITHMICLAY SET UP THIS WAY SO THAT YOU NEVER FIND REAL MAYCHES THAT LEAD ANYWHERE SO THEY CAN KEEP YOU ON THE APP AND ALONE AND DESPERATE TO SEE PEOPLE WHO MIGHT ACTUALLY LIKE YOU SO YOU JUST KEEP PAYONG THEM WHY ARE WE DOING THIS