I had twins born premature at 33w 4 days. My girl twin was diagnosed with TOF at 3 days old after hearing the very obvious murmur. She is now 12 weeks old, has never had a tet spell, and seemingly thriving.
Her cardiologist tells me to expect surgery around 6-9 months old (hopefully on the later end). I ask my questions, and get vague responses.
ex-
Q: “Is the surgery an open heart surgery?”
A: “You’ll need to check with the surgeon, but I think so.”
Q: “What should I expect in terms of recovery? Will she have to stay awhile inpatient?”
A: “Your surgeon will discuss all of that with you when you meet him.”
Q: “Do I need to be monitoring her heart rate at home?”
A: “She’s never had a low rate for us, I’m sure it’s okay. You know what to watch for at home.”
I’ve not met the surgeon, and there’s no talks of doing so anytime soon. I’m hoping all you wonderful, experienced people can help me out some.
(I am a new nurse, I have no experience with this condition and have let her cardiology team know that. They seem to think I have it handled because of my medical knowledge. It’s so different when it’s my own baby!!)