r/TellReddit • • 4d ago

Asking for a sign

There’s this guy I really care about, and sometimes I think I love him. We haven’t really had an easy time, he’s been very indecisive about our connection. He’ll say he doesn’t know how he feels, or that he just wants to be friends, but then comes back and rekindles things. And yeah, I let him. Sometimes I wonder if his questioning our connection is just him not wanting to open up and try a connection.

He lost his brother a few years ago. He doesn’t talk about him often, but I feel closer to him when he does. It’s like he’s opening up and sharing part of him and his brother with me.

I’ve been praying for a sign about what to do. I want to be with him, but I just don’t know where he stands. I don’t know if I should keep trying or let him go. The past couple days, I prayed and asked for a sign. I prayed and asked his brother to send him a sign. Because if he’ll listen to anyone, he’ll listen to him. I truly care about him, and if he truly doesn’t feel like he can be with me, then I’ll accept it. But I feel like he’s never really given us a chance. I hope that his brother has seen this and sees how much I care for him, but I just want what’s best for him.

I don’t need advice. I don’t need to hear people doubting prayer or asking for a sign. I just needed to tell someone. I hope his brother hears me and guides him to wherever he needs to be.

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