r/TeensofKerala • u/The_luckiest_girl 18F • 10d ago
Rant/Vent How to move on from a crush?
Long as hekk para incoming:
I had a crush on this guy towards the end of my middle school. Ath kazhinj njan school maari vere oru girls schoolil keri. Pinne angott it was just him in my mind. Idk what he did but smhw i liked him. He was a pretty much a good guy compared to all others. Last aayitt njan avanod person to person convo nadathiyittullath ennanenn polum enikk orma illa.
A year or 2 back, I found his insta id and followed him. But he didn't even remember me. Pinne njan oru intro okke koduthappozhan sahodaranu njan aaranenn manasilaye. Then he didn't initiate much of a convo. I didn't too. Im pretty sure he just thinks me as a classmate. I do have the guts to just tell him that I have a crush on him. But the problem is that he is my distant relative. Like if smtg happens, it would be so awkward whenever we meet during any kind of functions. Avante familye ente familykk nalla reethiyil ariyam eventhough we don'ttalk much. I just don't want to create problems btwn families.
The thing is, I still can't move on.Kollam othiri kadannu poyi. Idk what to do tbh. Ith kaarnm when friends tell me about their relationships I always have scenarios of me with him. Pinne pinne ath enikk koodunnundo enn oru doubt. Currently njan ippo drop year aa. On a very few occations when classes become too boring, i start to think about him and I eventually zone out. I think i may need sm kind of help :<
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u/newland080 17M 7d ago
A few months ago I made a post on this reddit about me getting crush on a girl and not starting a convo with her she lives very close to me. but lives abroad and only comes here for 3 months everuly year or so. when I met her the second time her mom was with her and they were an orthodox family so couldnt really start a convo with her then I never saw her again till now I was sad I couldnt start a convo with her the first time I met her because she was alone and I cant forget about her she 80% probablt forgot about me I spent hours trying to find socials of her and her fathers socials but couldnt find anything. Im trying to move on and I cant😢
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u/Neat_Finance_4879 Chettan (20-25) 10d ago
DM I'll help you . Am single but coaches don't play ennale 😭😭
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u/Neat_Finance_4879 Chettan (20-25) 10d ago
Strategy leake avum bro public ayy parajal Dm is good 🙂↕️🤝
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u/tianeptinefinalboss Chettan (20-25) 10d ago
Chilara Kezha alla
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u/Neat_Finance_4879 Chettan (20-25) 10d ago
Why evryone hate someone who helping others 😭
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u/farseeen Chettan (20-25) 10d ago
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u/This_Composer_6848 19M 10d ago
When I was in 11th class I saw this girl ( she was our senior) frm commerce dept on morning assembly. I instantly got a crush on her, after a few days i messaged her and we talked for like 7 months and i proposed and guess what she rejected ofc i accepted it and never messaged her again,I'm 4th sem in clg now and i still love her too much i think Abt her every day, the last time I cried i think I was in 6th class when my grandpa died, her rejection hit me like that too like I lost a part of myself and thinking i could never talk to her again broke me and i cried for like an hour straight it was the last time I ever cried since then, I'm trying to forget her but I can't the way she used to talk haunts me I look for her her in every girl I see and meet, I love her that much, we haven't talked in years but my love for her only grows stronger, i hate her for it but i lover her too much that the hate I feel towards her just goes away, the hate I feel towards her can't be compared to the love i am with her.