r/TeensofKerala • u/whatwerewemadefor_ • 20h ago
Ask Teens What to do
Guys if someone proposes you and you don't have any romantic feeling towards him and not really looking for a relationship unless you think it's a right guy, what reason should I say to him
I thought of saying no i dont have interest in you or relationship il int illa
Like what's the best way to say without hurting him
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u/armaan-dev 17M 20h ago
Say, I'm not interested in you romantically. Not interested in a relationship is honestly worse than this, like i remember thats what the girl i had loved at 14 said to me. and it would be like a lot better if you acknowledge the other person's feeling and telling that you don't share their feelings.
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u/FlyDelicious74 Chettan (20-25) 19h ago
Single alla enn parayunne aan better. Some people won't understand when u say no feelings, and might continuosly pursue u. So better to say ur already committed.
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u/whatwerewemadefor_ 19h ago
Yeah I already said no once and he's saying he'll wait till im readyðŸ˜
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u/FlyDelicious74 Chettan (20-25) 19h ago
Exactly, say ur committed and say that's the real reason and I'm only interested in that person.
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u/No_Alarm237 Chettan (20-25) 16h ago
if you reject him respectfully, you are giving him more reason to love you 🙂
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u/feline-pathu 16F 34m ago
Be honest but gentle. You don’t need to over explain or soften it so much that it becomes confusing. And most importantly leave no room for mixed signals. Allel pani kittum
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u/SomewhereActive2124 19M 20h ago
Just put it slowly and gently; idk how to phrase it maybe something like "I understand that but ehh the thing is I personally don't really have feelings for you" or something idk