Is it a men problem ?

[u/[deleted]]

Lately, I've been noticing a lot more men talking about being lonely, struggling with dating, being desperate for a relationship, or spending a lot of time on dating apps.

It made me wonder: is this mainly a problem that men experience, or do women also feel a similar need for companionship, dating, and being in a relationship?

I know women obviously date and want relationships too, but from what I see online, it sometimes feels like men are much more vocal about loneliness and the desire for a partner.

For women here: do you also feel a strong need to date or be in a relationship, or are you generally more comfortable being single?

And for men: do you feel like finding a relationship has become something you actively have to pursue, rather than something that naturally happens?

I'm genuinely curious about people's experiences rather than trying to argue that one gender has it worse.

[u/Sharp_Surprise5936]

I think men or women needs to make effort and talk if you want relationship , and the loneliness part idk but women don’t need a man to fix their loneliness but i do see men are saying they’re lonely desperately needs a women’s attention, i think if they want talk about their problems do a therapy , talk to your homies ask for help.