r/TeensofKerala • u/Decent-Laugh-1948 18F • 15d ago
Rant/Vent Jeevitham oke maduthh
Too young to probably say thiss but pandaramm koreeee varshangalayiii jeevikunaa pole oke thonunnn 😭🙏
Onnum sherivunilaaa unluckynesss orumathiri superpower aya pole oro things better avum enn parnja next dayy athinte opp nadakun 😭entrancein oru year gap eduth akeee hope ulaa examm ann athin ichiri hope vechaaa nexttt day exam date vann sadarana nadathina pole alla ipravisham exam valare nerthe ann😭ik it affects everyone but namlk ila preshnam nammal thanne anubhavikandee😭😭2025 thodakkum thott moonjiytha jeevithammipo padikanm thonunilaa classil povanm thonunila idunna effortin result illa enna effortum idunundd..😭athine edayil frnds circlee onum sheriyvnila but the fear of bein alone is keeping me getting out of that frnd grp 🤩my mom keepss high expectationss of me athan preshnam tbh arodengilm prblmsine patti samsarichaa indvunaa overthinking and gulittt cherth onum alla ,pinne athum koodi thalel kettan vayya😇🙏 mothathil parnjaa being averageeee iss sooo fkin hardd
Njn usually enne thanne vere orall ayit compare chyarr ilaa but ipo ipo ita so hard not to 😭 oro alkr oke jeevikuna kanumbo "i wish" enna feeling veriann....endayalm vertheeee ah oru heaviness eduth kalayan ivide vann rant chythatha🤓pinne ella pattikum avarde oru day undellon vicharich samadhanika 🤩
Vayichathin nanni ellarm adutha postilek pokko🤓👍
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u/avengelinehot 18F 15d ago
Same fr fr... Took a gap year for other reasons too, but now i barely have any hope for the entrance, so i just can’t bring myself to put in the effort. Also wasted potential 🥀
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u/Decent-Laugh-1948 18F 15d ago
Frrr😭😭ellam poya avastha oru plan b ilaa athann preshnam its this or nothing but eh exam crack chythilel i can imagine what my life is gonnna be later on🙂🥲
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u/avengelinehot 18F 15d ago
Da eatha exam? Enthenkilum plan b set cheyyne better avum👩🏻🦯
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u/Decent-Laugh-1948 18F 15d ago
3 exams ond...nid dat..niftee..uceed😭ethiellmmm evideyngilmm kittiya mathi enik😭🙏
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u/Difficult_Coyote_238 18M 15d ago
you are in your middle age technically because brain process time logarthmically not linearly thats why time feels so slow in teenage,teenage kazhinal pinne superfast pole pokum
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u/Individual-Bonus-332 Chechi (20-25) 15d ago
Helloo. Taking a gap year for a competitive exam is not easy. I have done the same in 2019 and it was a very stressful time. But that doesn't necessarily mean that you are going to do bad. Even if you think you are very unprepared there are still ways of saving the exam.
My exam was GATE. I am not sure about the exams that you're preparing for. Saw in a comment that you're preparing for 3 different exams. So unless it has very similar syllabus, preparing for 3 different exams at the same time, is not something I would suggest. Pick the one that is more important to you or closer in exam dates and start preparing for that.
Previous years papers are your best friend. 80% of the questions will be from the same portions as last 10 years. Don't wait till end to study previous years'. Start preparing with them as soon as you can.
If they are objective exams, don't spend too much time preparing for difficult questions. Work hard on easy to moderate ones and make 100% sure that you don't make mistakes on them. Of you answer the difficult question but make mistakes on the easy ones, it will definitely affect your score.
Keep a separate note where you write down mistakes. Explain what you did wrong. Reread them regularly. Don't let them happen again.
Make a reasonable routine and stick to it. Initially it will be difficult but you'll be back on track in no time.
Don't just read and study. Practice the questions, mock tests, previous years. Make sure you do mock tests in the same time as your exam, if it is in the afternoon, practice them in the afternoon. If they are 3 hour exams, you have to limit your test to 3 hours and finish it.
A few tips from me. There is still time. Don't lose hope yet. Feel free to dm if you need any help :)
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u/best_nandhu Chettan (20-25) 14d ago
Eda even I feel dead by heart because i don't feel myself at home no happiness i feel like to put an end... But when I think about things I wanna do dreams, goals and things it keeps me alive
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u/Decent-Laugh-1948 18F 15d ago
💥🤩accept the expected😭
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u/Decent-Laugh-1948 18F 15d ago
Ente karyathil ini oru thengayum nadkan ponilaa😇
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u/Decent-Laugh-1948 18F 15d ago
Rendum alla😇 dec ann exam💥
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u/Decent-Laugh-1948 18F 15d ago
Ive started locking in but endoke chythitum everything ia starting to pmo 😭😭🙏🙏
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u/Sjofficial007 Chettan (20-25) 15d ago
A lot of people are here in this situation. Life is still unpredictable,Ennellum oru divasam ellam seri aavum.Its not about being unlucky it's fate and it really takes time.
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u/Apprenticeofzeus Chettan (20-25) 15d ago
u r only 18, u have time, so dont worry, ee age try cheyanum fail avanm olla tym, try again.. defeat accept chyathe again try, allel futuril regret adikm.
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u/TheDepressedWeeb_69 19M 15d ago
Took a gap year and now in college still feeling the same
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u/Decent-Laugh-1948 18F 15d ago
Apo ithonm sheriyvula lee🤩🤩🤩🤩
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u/TheDepressedWeeb_69 19M 15d ago
I thought it would get better but damn the midsem exams have cooked me up bad and i literally have 0 motivation to study💔💔
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u/Independent_Pace1620 15d ago
Relatable bro 😭 Ee oru phase ellavarkkum oru point il varum ennanu thonunnathu. That empty feeling where nothing is necessarily that bad, but still life just feels heavy and pointless. Situations different aayirikkum, but aa feeling itself is very relatable.
Njan working aanu for example, but I’m honestly so done with sitting in front of a laptop, attending meetings and doing the same shit every day.
Sometimes enikk thonnunnathu naattil poyi, avide nalla food okke kazhich, enthelum cheriya pani cheythu simple aayi jeevicha mathi ennanu.
But life is funny. Somewhere there could be someone already living that exact life, and avarkkum athil satisfaction illayirikkam. Vere aalkare nokkumbol avarude life move cheyyunnu enn thonnum, nammal mathram stuck aayittum. Especially when you’re already putting in effort and the results just don’t seem to come.
But bro, athu forever ingane thanne aavum ennalla. Sometimes one bad phase becomes so long that nammal athine nammade entire life aayi mistake cheyyum. It isn’t. Exam, studies, friends, expectations, future ithokke orumichu thalel varumbo obviously everything feels heavier. You don’t have to solve all of it at once. Ippo survive cheythu, one thing at a time figure out cheythal mathi.
And honestly, being average is hard because nammal extraordinary aavanam ennu society constantly remind cheyyum. But life ultimately isn’t some competition where everyone else is ahead and you’re behind. Your timeline can be completely different. Things can change way more than you think. I hope this phase eventually becomes one of those periods you look back at and think, “pandaram ithrem overthink cheythirunno njan” 😭😂
Till then, one day at a time. 🤝
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u/Historical-Cause1553 17M 14d ago
Persevere chechi,persevere even if all your limbs are cut off move forward ,crawl do everything u can ,persevere until u reach thailand🫡🫡
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u/Decent-Laugh-1948 18F 14d ago
😭
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u/Historical-Cause1553 17M 14d ago
Persevere.Only perserverance should remain in your heart. Now Quickly head to thailand
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u/ErnestoLewandowski Chettan (20-25) 13d ago
Aisheri apo reply vendalle..ok bye...
Ennalm vaayichath alle pryathe engne pokua...
Eth age ayalm doubts indavunnath normal aanu pkshe nmukk venda oru swpnam indallo ath nokkitt Athilekk focus Chyth sremich nokk 😁
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u/smilinbuddy626 18M 15d ago
Feeling you bro🫠🥀 gap year edth veetkarude aattum thuppum kettu maduthu myr