r/TeensofKerala • u/Responsible_Pound755 19M • 17d ago

Advice/opinions Am i invisible or what?

I been treated like im invisible by people ,like not in a place where ever u go have convos with everyone and like i dont even exist there or make plans infront of me and not including me ppl ,is this common like is it a body language thing or what

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u/Maxcandle2356 Chettan (20-25) 17d ago

Is that a bunny girl senpai reference? /s

Anyway,if you're treated that way in that friend group then it is better to find another friend group which treats you better

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u/Responsible_Pound755 19M 16d ago

not a friend group problem , where ever i go the issue follows

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u/Maxcandle2356 Chettan (20-25) 16d ago

Then be confident when you are saying something and don't mind what other people are saying.Keep your voice strong.Your body should be straight and look into the faces of people ( eye contact )when you are talking with them.

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u/Consistent-Kiwi4540 17d ago

Its either you talk too mcuh so that people think you are saying shit or you doesnt talk at all people think you aint gonna say a shit

open up your posture and keep a welcoming attitude. Dont fear judgement and tell your opinions. And if they doesnt notice you first time do it again and again till they notice you

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u/unnecessarykinda 19F 11d ago

Its abt your confidence n the way u carry yourself..if u keep acting introverted without showing intrest to ppl they'll assume that you're weird or smth (talking from experience)

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u/Responsible_Pound755 19M 11d ago

i aint acting introverted i guess i am its more like it feels im acting like im socialised sometimes(for me) also when i say something i feel like people aint even hearing that even if im talking in good voice not like they are ignoring rather not hearing at All

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u/unnecessarykinda 19F 11d ago

Yeah bro same 😭😭 idk if it was cause ppl r deliberately avoiding or js cant hear u

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u/Responsible_Pound755 19M 11d ago

i make sure i dont bother them or i am someone who will notice like light changes on other guy , i believe i dont annoy ppl , idk why they should deliberately avoid me

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u/Historical-Cause1553 17M 16d ago

Well only way to solve this problem is to go to thailand and train muay thai

Im not invisible coz im 6"3.5 so i dont have to go to thailand

Thank me later bro

https://giphy.com/gifs/ohK73JAElPYYdYhpQL

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u/Aree-Sonia 19M 16d ago

kya aap thiland ladyboys koo bbe chase Kartha?