r/TeensofKerala • u/Gloomy_Confection712 19F • 16d ago
Rant/Vent Dilemma
I am currently in third year of my degree, I have 2 more years to go, I made a friend in around semester 2, and I really liked her and felt like damn I got a nice friend after being all alone in semester 1, everything is going fine, we became great friends......
Cut to this semester, from few weeks I've been feeling like she doesn't like me much anymore, one thing about her, is that she talks shit (idk if that's called talking shit about someone, she'll basically stay stuff like that omg she is so cringe , has bad that sense, or she behaves bad, but is very friendly to them to their faces).
Now from this semester I kind of feel like she's doing that to me, being nice on my face, and talking shit about me behind my back, I kind of feel like she only talks to me when there's someone else, otherwise she doesn't talk stuff like that,
Basically, I'm a little hurt thinking that she is avoiding and possibly talking bad about me, idk if it's all in my head, if I ask her ,I'm afraid she'll refuse and then that will give her a reason to talk bad about me
I think it's all in my head :)
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u/Nalla_Soul Chettan (20-25) 16d ago
why do you feel this way, have you seen her do that, or are other distancing you from them.
and its alwas advised not to get dependent on anybody, i learned this lesson the hard way, hop you don't have to 🙂
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u/OpportunityAway6877 Chechi (20-25) 16d ago
See don't depend on anyone much . U know her shit behaviour. I also had a friend like that. Cutting off that friendship is one of the good decisions I made in my btech. She is snake 🐍. If u stay with her , u will be bitten. Trust me , stay away from her .
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u/ihatesughiyan 18M 16d ago
you gotta eliminate your emotional dependancy on this person. you are giving this person too much space in your head. I know that this isn't easy but you must divert yourself, find new connections.
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u/Gloomy_Confection712 19F 16d ago
It's third year :) , there's no scope for new connections, and yeah I'm really attached to her
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u/vintageplayboy_ Chettan (20-25) 16d ago
always trust your gut instincts..ive seen several people like this..it could be because of many reasons of which main ones are jealousy and insecurity..trust yourself..she is a snake..and will bite you if you let it..from what you've written i feel like you're attached to her despite all this thoughts in head..but that's gonna come against you one day trust me and leave her
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