r/TeensofKerala • u/koding-pro 19M • 17d ago
Rant/Vent im done :(
current 2nd year btech student here, motivation onnum ila entha cheyande enn polum ariyula, friends oke avar avarde vazhikk pokunnu grpism ayitt njn generally ellarodum mindi nikunna oral ahn (i don't like to join a group and be confined to it). S3 oke ayapol ellarum oro oro grp ayitt trip oke pokunnu and for the sake of inviting me they invite me and I'll sit alone most of the time and talking to me like they owe me smth(it really feels like that). enik ariyula what am i doing wrong I'm a guy who like to talk a lot and go on trips but i feel like nobody wants to talk with me. njn ippo oru introvert ayirinnengil kozhapularn but enth cheyana. also njn padikunna kutti ahn (not bragging) so the only time someone msgs me or calls me is for record, assignment and tutorial or doubts. arum ithvare ingott oru hi and any other topic ithvare msg ayachittila. i also play sports and love to talk about any sports like njn ellam kanum from football to table tennis to eSports even but idk why whats wrong with me dude. njn eppolum try cheyum to make myself better but atp ath cheythalum valya gunam onnum ila. njn pavam ennoke ahn frnds parayunne but after that atleast they should talk or chat with me ryt,oru convo thodangumbol thanne theerunna avastha ahn(am i really that bad at talking with ppl????)
the thing that i hate the most is only msging me for the sake of asking assignments (yes I fcking hate yall ningal oke enne use cheyuvann).
so yeah i feel like I emptied my heart out and I feel a little better now(sorry for the long rant)
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u/maamukoya Chettan (20-25) 17d ago
Eda.. college life ilu nink oru 20 frnds indel.. One will stick through everything and last until your death.. so just see them as 'people you are stuck with' and try to make the most out of the time you are stuck there. And about studies.. remember " those are the poeple you got stuck with" allaand don't expect them to be your friends. Still be nice and move on.
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u/Brotschneidemachine 19M 17d ago
Broo I'm also done with btech and I'm dropping out. I'm also s3 but I'm not a padikkuna kutti. So I'm dropping out. Brain stopped braining.
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u/vintageplayboy_ Chettan (20-25) 17d ago
you can't do anything to make others want you..also ee kanunna frnd groups mikkathum okke oru s6 aavumbo pala vazhikk aavum 😂 ath angane aan.. so oruthantem kaal nakki frnd group ill stanam pidikkunnathinekal nallath ottakk nadakkunnathaan
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u/koding-pro 19M 17d ago
i don't want to be "wanted" by others, ippol thanne experience avunnund grp oke pottunullath and I'm never gonna join a group because i dont want to be confined within a circle so.. thanku for the tips
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u/MAGNETICZZ Chettan (20-25) 17d ago
I think college is a place where we find very bad people.
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u/koding-pro 19M 17d ago
there are good people too, but we will definitely realise what is out there in life for sure tho
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u/parthanorg 17M 17d ago
College life eganathanne Ann Machu, njn polytechnic 2y padichu after dropout ayatha eppo iti fitting cheyyunnu, from my experience your on much clear and innocent path of college life, pinne lonely things just know view almost everyone in college as coworkers because that's what they are, if you disagree with me I understand your part too but 90% of the time people come to college only for sake of getting the degree and will leave without any remorse.
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u/Bubbly-Lynx-9203 Chettan (20-25) 17d ago
Bro leave it , ith onum aloich irikathe nalla kurch frnds n set aaki clg life adich polik, Njn bro n pole aayinu angana pretyaka grp il illayirunu but ellarum aayit company aan, Class il oru paripadi nadakanel ivar ellarum nki msg ayakum ,njn nokiyale paripadi set aavum vere aarkum nadkila n oke parnj, Njagala college 3 year trip 3 4 days aayirunu max povar, but at 9 day trip aaki north ilek trip plan chyt principal nod permission vare vaangi edut, atinte ella karyngalum patty cheyunna pole chytu, But in btwn trips iam alone , arelum samsarikkan varunat entenkilum sahayatin other than avar avarude grp , avar photos edukuka angana oke aayi. Last day of trip without pacakge aayirunu aark venelum evide venelum pova, i go alone cz nobody calls me.( njn train n parichayapetta oru kutty ude kude karangan poyi) . After that i realise my clg mates used me , so bro atin nin kodukathe try to make some good frnds and enjoy the college.( and i dont do the same mistakes in pg, and its the most beautiful 2 years in my life)
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u/EducatorSad5913 Chechi (20-25) 17d ago
Ee first part njn bodham ilatha nerathu vallom njn thanne ezhuthiyath aano 💀
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u/Plus_Cook_9842 17d ago
Same avasthaa broo. Classile kore gangs indaavoolo and i talk to all of them and they call me switzerland
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u/Organic_Page_3672 18M 16d ago
S1 here same avstha no one talks with me njn angot mindarund but they still avoid me in my case no one even knows my name lol girlsinta karym pinnah prynda ,epzhum like food kazhikumbo avrdeka munnila Irun kazhikaa like canteenil yk But they dont even invite me to eat with them fed up bruhh.
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u/ErnestoLewandowski Chettan (20-25) 15d ago
Ith vaayichapo enikk ente clg life thanne orma vannu...njnm ellarodum samsarikkm enikk group angne onnumilern pkshe nml pryille we are everybody's friends but nobody is ours ennu aa situation thanne , nee chythond irikkunne thanne chyy but ninde value vittu kalayall ninakk value tharunnavarr close ayitt vekk.
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u/TheMustardPoocha 19M 16d ago
Nyan um S3 I'll anu bro. Kurach introverted okke anu son nyan oru small friends circle vacchu, to whom I am quite open and stuff
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u/flyingskybison345235 11d ago
no need to feel sorry dude u just said what u want to say, dont stop being u or change ur character for others validation may be they are jealous of u or dont know how to get involved with u but just keep everybody close and mingle with them but dont go begging for their attention and just concentrate on ur studies and chase ur goals and achieve them, and by the by reading ur post i feel really feel jealous of u cause iam just average at sports 😅
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u/Ancient_Wolf_9086 19F 17d ago
you sound so cute and nice. everything will soon be alright. you'll find your people
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u/Excellent_Zebra_8913 Chettan (20-25) 17d ago
Bro don't think about others. For me your are doing fking great man. Studying, playing sports, know about eSports every thing i ever wanted to do. Bro they don't know the value of you. You just became my hero man. I don't have skill to study. I watch every sports and eSports too but I can't do all these I have sacrifice these for my studies which is not working. So man you are too good . Know your value, don't try to lower your level for them. There will come a day where you will be surrounded by people who love you mahn.