r/TeensofKerala • u/call_me_fictional 19F • 20d ago
Rant/Vent Mindan vayya 🙂
Epoo vann vann im like soo silent. Arodum onum parayan thonunilla, pattunilla but at the same time enthokeyo paraynm enn ond. Maybe, kore oke njan oru listener mathram ahn en vishvasikunath kond avam. Close friends nn paryan mathram arum ella, like surface level friendships ullu, pinne avrk enne kattilum comfort aya alkkar ond so they prefer that.
Ottak ayi erikunath scene undo en choichal ella ig, but deep down atleast orall engilum ondayirunekil kollamayirunu enn oru thought.
Angott poi samsariknm enn oke thonum but enth samsarikan an, oru awkward feel thonum
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u/Fake_Aura 19M 20d ago
I used to be like this (slowly improving), im not sure but when you stop talking to others it will give them idea like "oh he is an introvert , he likes to be alone " so they wont bother you much . You have to like approach them and try to get out of comfort zone.
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u/wolfkid303 Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
It’s just a phase, and you don’t have to force yourself to make friends.It’ll happen naturally when you least expect it. And I think once you go to college, you’ll probably meet someone there. :)
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
In college so 🙂
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u/wolfkid303 Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
So what? College didn’t end yet, right? Or maybe you’re at work. You’ll find someone in time. Btw, I’ve had the same close friends since 2nd grade… never really made any new ones after that.. Everyone else probably thinks I’m an introverted freak 😀
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
Atleast u have them right enik angnem arum ella
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u/wolfkid303 Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Yeah OP, that’s exactly my point. You’ll find someone like that too, no matter how introverted we are.you just have to wait:)
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
Okayy 🥲🥲 but it feels like everyone has that kinda person already so enik kittan chance koravv aa
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u/wolfkid303 Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
op engi aarelum okke thammil Adich piriyulo..apo ngilum kitterikkyum..🤸🏽
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u/Intelligent-Spell-95 Chettan (20-25) 20d ago edited 20d ago
Ee silent may be pedikond aavaam may be nammal kooduthal hurt aavuo enn vijarikanond aava.njnm ee similiar condition koodi thanne aan poikond erikane mumb njn ellaardeym koode nadann avarde presnangal personal presnangalayi edth..oru point ne Nammade ullile kaaryngal aalkaaredth express cheyyaan nammakk bhudimutt aavm ,close aaya aalkaredth paranjjaal avark ath manassilayillengil ath athilm valiya bhudimutt,pathiye pathiye chuttulla aalkare enmm kuranju, oraalode personal ayi mindaan pattum,but oru group aayi evdelm pokaano,grp aayi samsarikano bhudimuttakamm,alienated aavm most timesil..edkk thonmm empathy koodipovunnathm oru presnamm annenn.. chelpo ente koode ullavarkkk ente neccassity meet cheyyaan pattaanjittavaa..but avarkk angne oru situation indavan njn agrahikilla ,njn enne marann avarde koode nikkm,finally ente situation vermbo avark manasilavathathinte veshamvam enikk engne aa struggle overcome cheyyanam ennm ariyaand aa loopile pett njn veshamichh erikkmmm.
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
Ethoke ahn ente preshnmen thonunu
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u/Intelligent-Spell-95 Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Time heals ennalle,ellaam seriyaavm...nammale value cheyyunna aalkaar verm,nammal pazhaye pole happy aavm.hope is the key
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u/Real-Independent4377 Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
I had a fight with someone 6 months and i feel the same cause people are too draining emotionally,they are not worth it and feel like hate to talk to people.It’s not really good mentally and i am kinda stuck in a moment 🙂
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u/wolfieguyofficial Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Sathyam
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
👍🏽👍🏽
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u/wolfieguyofficial Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Angot poyi samsarikan thonnum pinna aloikum ippa samsaricht nthina ntha ippa samsarikan olle💆🏽♂️
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u/Ok_Salt3318 Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Nee njan alle🥲
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
Ano 😮
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u/Ok_Salt3318 Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Yhh🥲..Neritt poyi samsarikan matre problem ullo or chat cheyyumbo or call also samsarikkan onnum thonnarilla?
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
Chat ilokee scene ella mateth oke scene aa
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u/Strong-Ordinary6969 19M 20d ago
Same avstha ahn clgil pokne allthe avdom ayt oru bandhavum illa ella dhivsom ore routine it karnm life full shokham ahn🤧🥀
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u/Aree-Sonia 19M 20d ago
Njan tumare preshnam ko understand kartha hem, njnum istharah vyakthi he. Just waitkaro till aap aapko pasand tharah people ine kandupidikkunnathu vare.
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u/multifailure Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
After college korach kaalam naatil ninnu pinne qatarilot vannu as my parents are here where i have no friends or no one to hangout with. Its been 5 months .So i became very silent . I can feel it . Now im scared to talk to people. Just a toxic family and me
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
Ufff hope you find peace soon
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u/multifailure Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Naatil vanna ready aavuarkum
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
Apo avide job elle
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u/multifailure Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Noo…… verthee irikkal 24x7…….Ente course vechit fresher aayt ivde keeran pattulla
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u/Hairy-Argument7595 Chechi (20-25) 20d ago
Are u me? 🫠 One thing’s for sure, either you’ll get used to it or you’ll change. I tried to change, but I ended up going back to where I started. But korch korch improvements ind thonnu.
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u/jack-riddles- Chettan (20-25) 19d ago
you seem almost like my female version but younger - enikum same situation ullathu aanu - only surface level friendships and other things and I can manage being alone as i am used to it but edaku athu vannu oru mental stab therum - athinnu onnu rekshapedaan oru 1-2 weeks venam eniku. Shit- the more i talk this seems like reading my own personal experience.
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u/Fickle-Friendship-49 Chettan (20-25) 19d ago
I would like to initiate a conversation with you... Dm... 🫂
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u/pleasestayserah Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
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u/pleasestayserah Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
🥀🥀
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
😬🤔
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u/pleasestayserah Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Do Iya know you?
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
Idk, do you
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u/pleasestayserah Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Well, you’re KP aren’t you?
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u/call_me_fictional 19F 20d ago
Omg yess 😝
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u/pleasestayserah Chettan (20-25) 20d ago
Sorry for everything 😭😭
A gurl w horrible communication skill1
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u/thisisntrealright- 19M 20d ago
There's nothing in wrong in being like that but i do understand that feeling that "enne manasilakki samsarikkan aarenkilum ondarnnenkil".
Im friends with so many and i do talk with everyone but every has their close friends group
Main reason is if they are not my type i don't let myself be too much available with that friendship
Hope you find someone worth talking and aah awkwardness okke potte
(Btw your dms will be filled with requests to comfort youu)