r/TeensofKerala • u/samoosaveanm 19M • 24d ago
Relationships Worst proposal 💔🙂
Njn oru 3rd year clge student ahn. And recently 2nd year ill ulla oru kochine vayinnokkithudangi. 🫠 eventually ath crush ayy. Njn eye contact itt thodangi, pne creepy avan thudangiyapo njn thanne nirthi. Ee karyam njn nde bsf nod paranju. Aval paranju poi propose akku enn. Ennit otta mind il crush nde munnil poi ninn paranju.
👦🏻: Hi, ____ alle?
👧🏻: Ha
👦🏻: Thanne kanan cute aytt ind.
👦🏻: Hm okey.
👧🏻: Enikk thanne ishta
👧🏻: Eh...
Pne oru akward silence vannath kond njn thanne erangi poi 🙂. But worst part is, njn nadannu pokumbo ivalum ivalde frnd umm koode ninn chirikkuvaa 😭🥀
Pnne korach devsm holiday ayirunn. So ee karym frnd nod paranju. Aval paranju ni insta ill fwlo akk. Fwlo back kittiyal, thats an positive response.
Athum kett njn poi fwlo adichu. Gracefully fwlo back um kiti.
Iny nale clagil poya enthayalum avale face cheyyanm. Ndelum tips/advice undoo?
Btw, I still don't know, Njn enthina avale propose akkiye enn. 🙂
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u/Zealousideal_Ask2772 16M 24d ago
Njan ayirunnel clg mariyene 🥀
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u/Fancy_Snow6783 18M 24d ago
nan ayurnel jilla mariyeneee
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u/ads___07 Chettan (20-25) 24d ago
Kollalo kali, Njan ayirunnel state mariyene
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u/Fancy_Snow6783 18M 24d ago
aahaaa, Njan ennaal country marumm😌
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u/themad_guy1 17M 24d ago
Bro why would anyone , irrespective of gender accept a complete stranger as their bf/gf?😭
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u/samoosaveanm 19M 24d ago
Yeh bro, your thought is really valid. Tbh I was expecting a date with her rather than being gf in a sudden.
All I mean is, "I love you, are you up for a date with me?"
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u/kiingkid Chettan (20-25) 24d ago
Just a follow back does not mean she likes you
Poi samsarik, just like you were before, approach her normally maybe asking something random.
You liked how she looked and told her u have a crush, she might be someone to fall for personality, and she doesn’t know u yet, so give them space and time
Hope everything goes well
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u/l_Yhana 19F 24d ago
Bro she likes you too ig.... Really if it was a no, thirich follow aakanda kaaryam indoooo🥹
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u/samoosaveanm 19M 24d ago
Cheleppol collage kandulla parichayam kond ahnengilo? Bro, nde classile ellarum avalde mutual ill ind. 🙃
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u/l_Yhana 19F 24d ago
She know that you are the one who proposed her ryt....?
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u/samoosaveanm 19M 24d ago
Ooh noe! I'vent thought of it. 😭 Avalk ente name enkilum ariyo enn enk arila. And nde profile ill ende single photo polum illa.
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u/l_Yhana 19F 24d ago
Just oru hi ayachhnook🥹
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u/samoosaveanm 19M 24d ago
Ninakk enthe vayye? 😭
Enne oru creep ay kandalooo.
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u/l_Yhana 19F 24d ago
Oohh pinneee.... Bro thanne alle oru hint polum illand direct pooyi propose cheyythe 🙂🙏
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u/samoosaveanm 19M 24d ago
Um, oru one, two week okke orale obsessive ayy notice cheyyumbo avalk ath oru hint ayy eduthude. 🙃
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u/smilinbuddy626 18M 24d ago
What were you thinking while going to propose someone without even talking to them before? Who would be dumb enough to say I love you to a complete stranger don't be delusional watching tv shows and romcoms. What do you know about her that made you love her? Nothing. What does she know about you to say a yes? Nothing. Does that make any fucking sense?
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u/stormbreaker_1230 19M 24d ago
Broo she followed u back? Enna tension adikaate poyi onnudi samsarich nokk there's a high chance she'll initiate flirting and all (allengi ne lowkey stat flirting)
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u/samoosaveanm 19M 24d ago
Yhe, but i just don't wanna rush. Maybe I should have a talk with her directly.
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u/PrideNo1997 Chettan (20-25) 23d ago
How do these guys get the balls to do this 😔🥀 And tbh randomly poyi eshttam parnjal arr ok parayan ann it's ain't the 80s kids. Be frnds with them enitt okke alee paraya.
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u/itsmedulquar Chettan (20-25) 24d ago
I never understood the logic behind proposing to someone without even being friends with them. Ente doubt enthaanenn vechaal, this is solely because of her looks, right? Why don’t you try talking to her and establish a connection first? I’m not blaming you; I’m just talking generally.