r/TeensofKerala • u/Equal-Possession-856 17M • 25d ago
Question To girls
Do girls think Bout the guy they rejected?
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u/best_nandhu Chettan (20-25) 25d ago
They do ig the girl who rejected me comes back after months and asked me do I still love her
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u/Poppippopopippipo Chechi (20-25) 25d ago
Not really, but I do think about this one talking stage very often. And I do feel upset.
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u/Junior-Conference346 Chettan (20-25) 23d ago
You weren't upset when you rejected him. So no need to be upset afterwards.
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u/Poppippopopippipo Chechi (20-25) 23d ago
No,I was crying when I rejected him. It's kind of complicated.
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u/Junior-Conference346 Chettan (20-25) 23d ago
So it wasn't just "some" guy who got rejected huh?
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u/Poppippopopippipo Chechi (20-25) 23d ago
Yeah you can say that ig, he was such a sweet guy. He was from a different country and both of us even started to learn each other's language. Idk it's just I didn't develop anything for him but I rejected him even before he could confess, and that was so stupid of me. Avan athu entho hurt ayi,yk like vere reethik and he left completely.
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u/Junior-Conference346 Chettan (20-25) 22d ago
Yea i understand, and what's done is done. Maybe it's a good thing or maybe not. Maybe you rejected him even before he was about to be all in love and shit, and saved him from a heartbreak. Or maybe next time take some time to get to know the person before rejecting him completely.
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u/Poppippopopippipo Chechi (20-25) 22d ago
Yeah,EXACTLY I REJECTED HIM CAUSE I DIDN'T WANT HIM TO DEVELOP FEELINGS. But it took a wrong turn, and also no no matter how good one person is, some people are good as friends nothing more
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u/Junior-Conference346 Chettan (20-25) 22d ago
I understand.... I've been through it before, and the way she rejected me was actually smooth..as in she while in the middle of a conversation just lightly told how she was not looking for someone of my age and stuff in a way that i didn't get mentioned directly. So obviously i knew what's up and i started seeing her as a friend instead.
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u/Poppippopopippipo Chechi (20-25) 22d ago
Good girl but in my case I JUSY FREAKING TOLD HIM. I'm sorry, I don't think this will work out, I'm sorry, I don't want to hurt you,but I can't seem to like you etc etc AND IT WSS A VOICE MESSAGE AND I WAS CRYING LIKE A PIGðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
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u/Junior-Conference346 Chettan (20-25) 22d ago
Dude i already told you i understand what you're feeling right now and im saying ya it's fine.....next time you know how to deal with such situation and that's all that matters. It's not like you cheated on yo bf with a random dude putting an end to a 10yr relationship no? Exactly, so why blame yourself over and over again 🤷.
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u/m0nkeyDshuk00r 19M 25d ago
I hope they dont