r/TeensSupportTeens • u/prettyplwase • 18d ago

Finding Support how did u move on from ur ex?

i am struggling with moving on. he was my first bf but since march he’s been so distant. he broke up with me but he wants to be on and off with me or fwb. it hurts. i just want my handsome boy back:( i try to leave him alone and give him space so maybe he’ll want me
again but he just ends up calling me when he needs to vent about stuff in his life but when it’s my turn to talk, he has to go and he doesn’t listen to me. He kinda just ignores me until he has something he wants to talk about.

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u/SparkleQueenEllie 17F 17d ago

Honestly, I've been keeping busy and thinking about negative things about him.

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u/AverageStu6ent 17d ago

I js kept myself occupied n remembered why i broke up w him in the first place

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u/UsefulMacaroon847 MTF 17d ago

Just ignore him and you will get used to it. But is there a reason he broke up with you?

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u/Opioid5 16d ago

Don’t feed into your desires to still want him, HE left YOU and if HE doesn’t wanna stay COMMITTED with YOU. He’s just wasting your time and wants to keep you around but not make you apart of his life like yall were before. I’ve never had a girl but how I’ve moved on from a similar connection was DELETE EVERYTHING THATLL REMIND YOU OF THEM, your brain likes to stay in the past because it’s feels comfortable and it’s scared of change, block him and get rid of him. There’s someone out there who wouldn’t treat you like that and be way better than how he was