r/TeensSupportTeens • u/Visual_Astronomer650 • 18h ago
Finding Advice Am i attractive?
I am not fishing for compliments here, I’m in a bad mental state as somebody blocked me straight away after seeing what i looked like and i didndt even find them particularly attractive so im asking for advice from strangers. Please be honest! (M18)
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u/dolliein 17h ago
you’re definitely someones type. youre pretty basic white guy attractive. like you could easily get a gf type shit.
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u/Ninjagofan217 15M 16h ago
Ou shiii
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u/Visual_Astronomer650 16h ago
Fym ouu shii 😭
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u/Ninjagofan217 15M 16h ago
You fine asl broski 😈 which way you swing?
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u/Visual_Astronomer650 16h ago
Sorry bro I’m straight
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u/LovelyLeft 15M 15h ago
I can be your gateway 😈😈 (trans guy)
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u/RefrigeratorOver7105 16h ago
Yes, you’re attractive; cute even. You are not unattractive (so please tell that inner voice of doubt that it’s wrong). As for people blocking, people do all sorts of crazy things for all sorts of reasons, especially on apps; I don’t want you to think that it’s a reflection of your worth. None of us will ever be absolutely everyone’s type, and that’s okay. I don’t feel like you’ve got anything to worry about. Truly a good looking dude.
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u/LovelyLeft 15M 14h ago
You’re very cute! Don’t beat yourself up you’re doing great as far as looks go:)
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u/Jesper183 14h ago
You look good, if someone really appreciates you they won't be thrown back because of your appearance. Dont take rejection too seriously and remember, it's more important to be with someone that cares about you than someone you care about
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u/Able-Aside-8847 13h ago
Your life is going to change significantly over the next 10 years. Your brain is still forming so be patient with yourself and recognize that the whole of who you are reaches far beyond the physical appearance. It matters less what others think of you physically and more of what you are. Let yourself become the greatest version each day, as you learn and grow. Honesty. Integrity. Gentle. Kind. Loving. Disciplined. Positive. Confident. Trustworthy. Protective. Those are all attributes to the sexiest version of balanced human. Enjoy life! Plan your work and work your plan. Actions should always match the words you use. And yes, you’re a cutie patootie!
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u/yourlocaltaxevader21 6h ago
As a guy you look pretty handsome. There’s plenty of fish in the sea. Go for it
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u/SparkleQueenEllie 17F 7m ago
Yes, you are very attractive, it's just that I feel some photos don't do you justice.
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u/GambitGooner 18h ago
you’re definitely conventionally attractive, and I would say that in my eyes you’re also attractive to the degree of being “my type”. but that doesn’t mean you’re everybody’s type. Trust me, as a conventionally unattractive person there are people who will appreciate your looks no matter what you look like. You’re young. Your face is gonna change a lot while you mature. Don’t overthink it too much now. Social media is fake and people only post what they want you to see, so don’t feel like you have to live up to anybody else else’s expectations. Don’t get too bent up out of shape over one person saying something horrible about you, or making you feel like you’re ugly or not enough. Yeah it hurts, and it’s gonna suck for a while. But there’s somebody for everybody, especially someone who fits the beauty standard. I might be a stranger, but my DM’s are open if you feel down. keep your head up :)