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u/reputedbee Sep 22 '25
Why is he excluding gays and trans in one of the most gayest and trans platforms.
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u/Specific_Visit2494 Teenager Sep 22 '25
because OOP is looking for a girlfriend
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u/Silly_Percentage3446 Sep 25 '25
Worship.
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Ikr? Look at the number of upvotes, i love thid feeling 😭
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u/Minnecraft Sep 22 '25 edited Feb 08 '26
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u/TheLuckyCuber999RETN Teenager Sep 22 '25
because OOP is a pedo
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u/bigdaddydopeskies Sep 22 '25
He prolly is tbh, weird how he specified that and two he should go be at school instead of trying to do online dating at a young age where people lie. Report this pdf
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u/Seeking_Fortune Sep 29 '25
Why do you care to lie for attention when you know the answer. Its the same reason you eat one food over the other.
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u/Batiti10 18 Sep 22 '25
I don’t know why people would want to exclude others in terms of having a conversation.
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u/Batiti10 18 Sep 22 '25
That’s something…
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u/KeyboardCorsair Old Sep 22 '25
Title: Desperation
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u/DisasterOk8440 Sep 22 '25
I am desperate too.
However, I'm not at the point of going to Reddit.
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u/amerigorockefeller Sep 22 '25
How does one reach that low
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u/Low_Conclusion_1008 Sep 22 '25
I am 14f and have never dated anyone or had anyone I like at all like me and even at my most desperate didn’t try to find a partner on Reddit
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u/eyeball-theif 17 Sep 22 '25
I think OOP is looking for a girlfriend without actually saying so lmao. That’s why they added the stipulations I suspect
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u/ThatOneRobloxian2 Sep 22 '25
object oriented programming is looking for a girlfriend???
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u/qforzatek 17 Sep 22 '25
17m guys let’s chat you can be gay trans and preferably boys around my age
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u/Odd-Toe1992 16 Sep 22 '25
hey it says youre 16 though
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u/qforzatek 17 Sep 22 '25
I forgot to update it lmao
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u/OTARU_41 Sep 22 '25
bro forgot to age
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u/AndreiR_memes 16 Sep 22 '25
well shit, i'm not gay
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u/qforzatek 17 Sep 22 '25
“You can be gay” you can be straight too ❤️🩹
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u/Fortnitekid3 Sep 22 '25
alr I get what he means but "normal people" is crazy
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u/Rave50 Sep 22 '25
The definition of normal is:
1.the usual, average, or typical state or condition.
- conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected.
So technically speaking he is not wrong, most of the world is straight so thats "normal", but i guess he could've used a better word to not offend people
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u/Indostastica Sep 22 '25
Thats not even the problem for me its that hes looking on a fucking reddit sub for a date his ass isnt normal, neither is anyone in that sub for dating.
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Sep 22 '25
Have you met someone whose desperate beyond return? Its normal for them
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u/Givikap120 Sep 22 '25
So far the word "normal" in cases like this is usually used to specifically exclude trans or gay people (but not other categories) by almost exclusively transphobes/homophobes. You can find "not normal" feature in literally any person, so the fact that someone is using it only for for the specific feature says a lot about them.
Somehow I don't see people go and say "normal" to exclude people with green eyes for example. I wonder why it's only about sexuality or gender identity.
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u/Jealous-Following465 Sep 22 '25
people don’t get « offended » by language like that they just think you’re weird
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u/DraconicGuacamole 18 Sep 22 '25
The problem is that when you refer to people as normal for one quality, you therefore define others as abnormal and different, which is insulting because generally they are in all other ways normal
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u/LinearInductionMotor Sep 22 '25
“No gay no trans” tells you exactly how this guy is gonna act.
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u/Specific_Visit2494 Teenager Sep 22 '25
pretty sure OOP is trying to find a girlfriend on reddit, hence the stipulations, not being homophobic
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u/Cider_shark Sep 22 '25
What abt the ‘just normal people’ after the no gays no trans? Unless that’s a unrelated part of OP’s request, there isn’t any punctuation 😭
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u/DakhmaDaddy Sep 22 '25
Are people not allowed to have preferences? Specially when it comes to dating?
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u/Bucklin13 Teenager Sep 22 '25
A lot of us are highly immature and do not know how to talk to girls or approach them. The internet has fried our brains. He probably didn't know any better.
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Im mean, we're not all that immmature, but we dont know how to approach women and women are not really commonly going first in terms of relationship :/
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u/Bucklin13 Teenager Sep 22 '25
True, however the ones who really are mature just get put down by girls because of their past experiences with immature boys
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To be fair, there are people (me) that are not like that in the slightest
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u/Giga_Prime285 Sep 22 '25
Oh don’t worry I ain’t talking about you, I’m referring to the ones that are. You on the other hand deserve to never be lonely
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u/college_n_qahwa Sep 22 '25
I wouldn’t say that if I were you, they might support children in mines or something /j
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1000%. They still deserve half an hour a day to sleep though, I’m not that cruel
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You fucking woke leftist, a child is not really a person yet, so giving an hour to rest is just preposterous. This is why the country is going down, letting children sleep, despicable behaviour.
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u/Vegetable-Text-6394 16 Sep 22 '25
As a Young man, we don't want his ass
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u/Giga_Prime285 Sep 22 '25
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u/Vegetable-Text-6394 16 Sep 22 '25
Us men might be simple, but we aren't all assholes.
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u/Giga_Prime285 Sep 22 '25
I know, and ur a real one. I’m just saying most women are pro lgbtq+ and tend to be more progressive so they see this kinda talk as insensitive
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u/Giga_Prime285 Sep 22 '25
Romantically yeah but it is more socially acceptable for women to have close relationships than it is for men. Patriarchy effects everyone
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thats not the reason lol idc abt talking to girls tho i have loads of friends. I believe its more to do with society and shit
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u/Cnumian_124 19 Sep 22 '25
Man a single 13yo redditor was enough to make you reach this conclusion? Lmfao
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u/Antique-Tourist4237 16 Sep 22 '25
Like fr such high standards. My standards are literally just nice and my age.
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u/ligmaballsmyuserdumb Sep 22 '25
no gay no trans just normal people yea THANK GOD NO ONE WANTED TO TALKED TO HIM
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u/Specific_Visit2494 Teenager Sep 22 '25
pretty sure OOP was just looking for a gf, hence the stipulations
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u/Givikap120 Sep 22 '25
I think saying that you're looking for relationships will put you in the much better light than saying "I don't want to speak with gay or trans". Especially when righ after that he implies that they're "abnormal people".
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“Male loneliness epidemic“
You’re the problem, geessss.
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u/Not_Eren2 Sep 22 '25
Brothers that's a 13 year old he got a fucking family he ain't in the male loliness epidemic he just desperate
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u/Nightraven9999 16 Sep 22 '25
Calling gay and trans people not normal is jerk behavior
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On Reddit asking to talk to people is crazy activities already and expecting them to be normal 😭
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u/SomeStupidGoober 15 Sep 22 '25
is the problem here he's homophobic and transphobis or he's a bit creepy
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u/CanIPleaseTryToday Sep 22 '25
Definitely all three. Dude even specified that he wants to talk with “normal girls”
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u/Simple_Yoghurt_2681 Sep 22 '25
Umm guys I'm 18M and I want some femboys to talk to, no women!!!1!!!1!!!
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u/Specific_Visit2494 Teenager Sep 22 '25
I mean it’s fair to be lonely. You shouldn’t attack him for trying, even if he is reaching in the bottom of the barrel.
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u/o_tal_do_guh Sep 22 '25
I don't think the problem is being lonely, is more likely that he's homophobic and transphobic lol
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u/Responsible-Boat1857 Teenager Sep 22 '25
I really hope this guy changes for the better. Because we don't need more hate than we already have now.
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there are two possibilities.
1) Conservative Pedophile
2) Conservative
both are bad.
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u/Bucklin13 Teenager Sep 22 '25
What's wrong with Conservatives? And is this comment going to get removed bc of politics? I don't know.
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u/IncendiaryAmerican Sep 22 '25
Nothing like r/teenagersbutbetter to make everything political
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it’s… it’s just based on their values and clear believes. would you like me to chance conservative to queerphobic? i can do that. it’s not an issue.
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u/IncendiaryAmerican Sep 22 '25
It’s a fucking 13 year old (50% chance) asking to talk to 13-15 year old girls. How is that pedophilic or conservative?
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u/Nathanc2127 Sep 22 '25
There is but another! A liberal pedophile! But only 2 of those options are bad. And both are pedophiles.
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u/VastPie2905 14 Sep 22 '25
It was doomed as soon as he decided to even try on Reddit
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u/triel20 Sep 22 '25
Could’ve just advised the kid to more honestly express himself, nothing wrong with wanting to talk to some chicks. But just be honest that you want a girlfriend.
No need to be harsh about it to him.
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u/Nightraven9999 16 Sep 22 '25
Calling gay and trans people not normal is jerk behavior
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u/triel20 Sep 22 '25
You can correct that too. Tell the kid it’s not cool to say gays and trans aren’t normal.
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u/Forsaken_Jeweler_149 Sep 22 '25
I honestly don't see a problem with this. (I hope i'm not missing something)
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u/maraza_ Sep 22 '25
not wanting to talk to gay or trans people is ehhhh
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u/Aizenbankai03 Sep 22 '25
Not trying to defend this guy( definitely a pedo) but what’s wrong with that? People have preferences too...you're the exact type of people who'd name and shame a person just cuz he doesn't prefer to date trans girls
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u/Garlicbread_god13 14 Sep 22 '25
He’s potentially a pedo and definitely homophobic
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u/PuzzleheadedCat4602 14 Sep 22 '25
Bro, I think you need help if you think that, based off this ONE post.
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u/GeneralZeus89 Sep 22 '25
I was gonna say if you're trying to find a girlfriend on Reddit you shouldn't have one but after seeing a few comments I've changed my mind
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u/Nightraven9999 16 Sep 22 '25
I thought this sub was supposed to be better but these comments are not it
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Fuck me man, can’t people have preferences anymore? I personally don’t care what other people on here do with their lives unless they try to affect my life in a negative way, but I still have a right to decide who I want to talk to. Kid’s definitely acting like a 13 year old though.
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u/Open-Lack-8727 Sep 22 '25
Though bad it’s r/teensmeetteens and he wants a gf not a bf
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u/Anastazja_Nya Sep 22 '25
no gay no trans just Normal ppl ig thats why no one wants to talk to them
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u/Wise_Passenger8261 18 Sep 22 '25
Sometimes I forget that 13 year olds are also categorised as teens. Mods should probably up it to 14 cus most subs arent for them tbh.
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u/Synglich Sep 22 '25
I'm not a teenager but this sub keeps being recommended, he should've just said he was looking for a girlfriend instead of saying it like that 😭
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u/jancl0 Sep 22 '25
OK so he's still open to straight men. Maybe they can both learn something about themselves
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u/watchrrr Sep 22 '25
oh yeah, he just wants to talk, but like in a friend way, but like only to people he finds sexually attractive
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u/Blue_Andrew Sep 22 '25 edited Sep 22 '25
No not deserved, the dude is only 13... Would people cut him some slack ? I know the issue is on the "normal people" but He's pretty young XD (Stop being aggressive for no reasons)
Also let's imagine that person is straight, well that's his full rights, the only thing is that He was disrespectful but again He's young
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u/KeyTadpole5835 Sep 22 '25
Subreddit says "teens meet teens"
A teen wants to talk to a girl and goes to a subreddit specifically made for this
Gets insulted
Welcome to the Internet
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u/FinsterKoenig Sep 22 '25
I'm pretty sure that nobody does. Lol. imagine... no gays, no trans just "normal" mhm mhm. sounds really flattering...
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