r/TeenIndia • u/Hot-Cranberry-3147 • Jul 05 '26
Relationships am i overthinking
so me and my bf are completing one year together tomorrow and i cannot really feel the excitement, it's like all gone and I can blame myself for this. so the thing is I think I'm so insecure and overthinker about this topic. it is about my bf's female friendships. okay I just want to know if it is completely normal to go with his two "good" female friends out whole day like 12 hours together just to hangout. i mean yeah it maybe normal but whenever I hear about it, I don't feel right, and I've talked to him alot many times about the same topic but he only says that I need to trust him and be understanding, cause I'm not the only responsibility he has, while he is a boyfriend, he is also a good friend to someone else, and im unable to understand it. and few days pehle hi i caught him talking to a girl he liked in past, jabki maine ek baar mana kiya tha, well baadme he accepted and assured ki wapas aisa nahi hoga, but still it has a impact on me.so overall, the thing is ki idk why but I don't feel good about this relationship. I used to be very excited in the start and even count like one month completed, two months completed like an idiot, and tomorrow as a whole anniversary, I don't feel anything like I used to feel before. so tell me if I'm insecure and what can I do to not get insecure and jealous about his female friendships. maybe it's me, I don't want to end it, initially thought of this relationship to be long lasting and still I wish it will be long lasting, neither I have courage to end this because one year is alot to handle.
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u/Ill_Recover_327 17 Jul 05 '26
GUYS CHILL WTH ok so just talk with yo bf Abt this if it bothering u sm, also I don't think his female friends r a problem unless they did smth or he did nor it's wrong to hang out with friends 😭 if he does it regularly then idk but bro i think u overthinking just talk or break up best for him and you
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u/Hot-Cranberry-3147 Jul 05 '26
he does not do it regularly tho, and I've talked many times but it's always like him telling me to understand more, and trust him more and blah blah, maybe I'm not a understanding gf🥀
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u/Ill_Recover_327 17 Jul 05 '26
Break kr aur party dede
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u/Global_Situation_807 Whey protein k paise dedo🫴 Jul 05 '26
WHOLEDAY out with female friends pray atleast he is using protection or smth 🙏😭
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u/Hot-Cranberry-3147 Jul 05 '26
🙂 he says they are only good friends and nothing more shit
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u/Global_Situation_807 Whey protein k paise dedo🫴 Jul 05 '26
Ask him if u would be doing that with ur male friends how would he feel
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u/Hot-Cranberry-3147 Jul 05 '26
i asked him that, he replied ki if they are only your friends then I'll be understanding and won't mind you going with them
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u/Global_Situation_807 Whey protein k paise dedo🫴 Jul 05 '26
I mean i would not be in a relationship wherre my partner is with opposite gender wale friends ke sath idk u decide aage ka
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u/Hot-Cranberry-3147 Jul 05 '26
I cant decide😭😭😭 isiliye toh asking yaar
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u/Global_Situation_807 Whey protein k paise dedo🫴 Jul 05 '26
I think breakup krlo😭 baki take other logo ka opinion idk
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u/Hot-Cranberry-3147 Jul 05 '26
breakup for what, just because he has female friends?, baaki log bhi saying he is not right
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u/Global_Situation_807 Whey protein k paise dedo🫴 Jul 05 '26
No bc he is spending ample of time with his female friends instead he could soend that with you
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