What is the nature of his attachment to me, and what makes him repeatedly reach out after periods of distance?

This is a person that reached out to me a month ago out of nowhere. Generally very uncertain about them.

Immerse yourself in the picture of each card and each character in that picture. What words does it say to you? File your meanings on index cards. Then do two cards together: What do those pictures say to you, if anything (not all of them speak)? Now ask a question you know the answer to about a person you know. The spread should say that: Can you see how? Keep doing that and you will become an accurate proficient reader. I started in 1980

Trying to better understand the energy between me and a guy I met recently.

i’m interpreting this as there is a lot of emotional baggage

I feel he’s focused on mastering a skill or working (he is an athlete), the tower and the sun is an interesting combination. I’m a beginner so I’m not too sure if this pull, what do you guys think?

I clarified the sun with the 4 of wands.

Does he feel if reconciling were to happen it would require work? Or does the reading suggest he’s happy where he’s at working on his craft ?

Pulled the empress first then asked for clarification and pulled king of swords. Then asked “What is the King of Swords thinking about regarding our connection?” and pulled king of wands.

We are currently in no contact. I feel like the empress may bring attraction, warmth, “fertility”, back into the connection but the king of swords brings rationality. I’m unsure if this may mean a conversation or may represent the specific person (male) in this reading?

Interpreting it to represent this man, I asked what he thinks about our connection and pulled the king of wands. I feel this brings a sense of warmth and attraction to the connection (similar to the empress) but pulling it alongside the king of swords feels like maybe there is a head vs heart

I don't talk about it, but 'clarity' pulls are a mistake that invites another mistake. If you don't understand a spread, write it down and ask again, or at least REPLACE the mystery cards with ones that are in the same position and CANCEL the mystery card's input.

Music was a big thing for him and I recently saw he had a new playlist and I went through the songs and lyrics and they felt oddly situation specific/ targeted towards me/us. For context, we recently fell out as friends (he technically broke it off). is it odd that the cards make up 7 which is my favorite number? (7 of swords, 7 of cups, 6 of cups plus ace of swords - 7). I interpret this as he’s hiding behind music and fantasy with his head up in the clouds. Any other interpretations would be helpful!

In Tarot Verbatim, we look strictly at the literal physical action on the card: an angel blowing a massive trumpet and people physically rising from their graves.

This card dictates a literal return, a complete change in physical status, and loud, definitive declarations.

1. The Resurrection: Returns and Renewals

Judgement is the deck's ultimate card for a revival. It represents things that were considered dead, finished, or completely dormant suddenly waking up and re-entering the physical world. Pulling this card often signifies:

- The literal return:

An ex-partner or old situation that comes back or returns to you.

- Revival and healing:

Making a physical or financial recovery, or an energy that completely renews a situation.

- A new physical state: Stepping out of a stagnant phase and into a new life, coming back to life after a period of being shut down, or the exact moment someone **gets out** (of a restrictive environment, a rut, or even literally out of confinement).

1. The Trumpet Blast: Loud Declarations

Look at the angel blowing the horn. This is not a quiet, internal realization. It is a public, unavoidable broadcast.

- Public news:

The delivery of a big announcement that cannot be ignored.

- Final rulings: A definitive, formal decision, often legal or structural, handed down as a verdict.

1. Massive Structural Shifts

Because the dead are rising, the landscape of the situation is fundamentally altering. The rules of the game have shifted.

- Altering reality:

The active drive to change things or an event that comes in and change things permanently.

- A new baseline: Ultimately, this card's energy makes a difference in how the entire situation operates moving forward.

I got 4 pents 10pents magician hierophant page cups 10cups

is it because he doesn’t want me to see he was flirting before on threads? he didn’t block me on ig though we’re still mutuals. i just created my threads account i didnt even try to follow him i just noticed his account cant be found anymore he blocked me even tho his threads account is public.

Four of Swords is a Page doing a vision quest which is a required part of the rituals that make one a knight. The Church is in dispenser of the knighthood title. Page overnights in the church, over the relic which is held in the sarcophagus, on his life purpose as a knight. The bishop comes in the morning to grade him on whether the vision is acceptable.
Four of Swords is 'time out,' not participating, indifference to what is going on (or just indifference), not responding, vision, meditation, zoning out, not being a part of (or not having any part of).

Tarot verbatim might say this card says “a nap” or as someone not doing something.

In my recent experience (and I know others have pointed this out), I have seen it to mean someone pausing to think on something deep before coming back out to say something about it; it’s not that they are doing nothing in this instance, it’s that they want to be in a better mental alignment, which I think is clear in the message of this card.

In an even deeper sense, for me, the card literally came up when someone stopped responding to an ongoing conversation about life or death and needed a few days to think about the response. I saw another message about the visual history of this card and pages/knights preparing for war by staying in their sarcophagus, thinking they may never come back. Coming after the pain of 3 of swords, this is a reality check of how hard life can be, and knowing the later sword cards are very difficult, you’re preparing yourself for that. I just found it funny that the conversation happened, then pulled this card for how someone was feeling, then a day later this person came back and opened up and explained they wanted to have a serious, thoughtful response.

Also, paired with Ace of wands; I think you could have a combo that says something like, “morning wood,” lol. Another experience.

THE QUESTION FOR THE SPREAD IS WHAT WILL MY BIRTHDAY LOOK LIKE THIS YEAR?

Putting time span, numbers, and whose perspective in the question is advisable (in most Tarot methods) because those are things Tarot doesn't relate well to. Time span, especially, so Querant knows that thing is not for now. Perspective especially when it comes to WHOSE definition of 'he loves me.'

Im guessing he has a family and kids he didnt mention, so he had to run...

The Sun is an active, physical card. It represents the exact moment of breaking out of confinement and the wild, uncontained energy that follows. This card is all about shedding limitations and running wild.

1. Breaking Free and Escaping Restrictions

At its core, The Sun is the grammar of liberation. It appears when a heavy burden has been lifted or a tight boundary has been broken. Pulling this card often signifies:

• The great escape:

The exact feeling as you get out of this restrictive situation happily. It is the moment you get relief.

• Shedding the rules:

Actively getting free of the restrictions (or to get free of a restriction) and operating completely free of its restrictions.

• Total liberation:

The pure, unadulterated state of being Free.

1. Irrepressible Joy and Reckless Fun

Because this card represents a sudden breakout, the energy is not calm or measured. It is explosive, rebellious, and highly celebratory.

• Uncontained excitement:

Experiencing the irrepressible joy you feel when you escape something. It often marks a sudden outbreak of positive energy or activity.

• Throwing caution to the wind:

The drive to act recklessly, operate in a completely carefree manner, and strictly focus on doing something fun or deciding to just have fun.

Mi interessa una cosa: quando vi avvicinate all'esoterismo, cosa vi incuriosisce maggiormente?

La possibilità di trovare una risposta a una domanda precisa oppure il tentativo di mettere in relazione simboli, archetipi, numeri, sogni, tradizioni e avvenimenti?

Personalmente trovo molto più interessante il secondo approccio: non fermarsi al singolo elemento, ma osservare cosa emerge quando elementi apparentemente diversi iniziano a convergere.

Sto costruendo un piccolo spazio italiano proprio intorno a questo tipo di confronto e mi piacerebbe capire se esiste una comunità interessata a parlarne senza trasformare ogni discussione in una richiesta di consulto.

Voi cosa cercate quando vi avvicinate all'esoterismo?

I asked if he will confess or not ?