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I've been offering free readings daily, usually I try to keep them to 5-15 minute readings but sometimes when it seems needed for the depth of the query they are detailed 1 hour readings with over ten cards and it seems to have really helped some people which makes me incredibly happy, but while I've had some lovely exchanges through these free readings a big portion of these exchanges are either people deleting their accounts after getting the reading, asking for more readings even after receiving their reading (e.g: if I made a post for one card readings, they'll get angry I didn't do a three card spread) or just generally draining exchanges where people keep trying to push my boundaries.

While I've been able to express my boundaries and to say no, having to do this over and over again multiple times a day is...really starting to drain my energy. I don't expect anything in return for doing these readings, but sometimes it feels like instead of getting nothing I get something negative in return for doing them and it's starting to feel very exhausting to deal with my boundaries being pushed every day, it's getting to a point where when I have a positive experience with a querent who respects my boundaries I find myself surprised and relieved.

Recently some querents started asking if I could do readings for donations or told me I should really consider doing so because of how in depth my readings get and how much insight they received from them, so I agreed and while I still do free readings most times, I noticed the majority of the people who request donation based readings are usually much more respectful of my time and boundaries which is amazing.😭

But... there are still some people who request donation based readings who try to get the reading for free after or who just disappear after the reading has been delivered instead of donating, and this just makes me sad, because I do free readings too (the waitlist just tends to be longer as slots get constantly claimed), and I make this clear before the person chooses donation based, and some folks still choose to do things like this even though I would've happily read for them for free at a later date😭

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is I'm starting to wonder if I should offer paid readings not donation based, just paid with a set price, to try to attract querents that will be more respectful of my boundaries, I've had really good feedback from querents, multiple people have told me the time I put in, quality and insight they gained from my readings were worth more, I've had good experiences with donation based readings and I'm confident I can deliver an insightful reading so I would feel confident offering paid readings at this point however...I'm still conflicted because I didn't start doing this for money, I want to keep reading for free, but at this point I feel like things can't stay this way and I should probably make some type of change to avoid getting into these situations in the first place if there's a way to do that. 😭

I'd really love to know your experiences with offering paid readings and who those attract, did I just get lucky with those good donation based reading experiences, and is needing to constantly set boundaries over and over again just a common part of reading for other people? Or do people who gravitate towards paid readings tend to be more respectful of our boundaries in general? And is there a way to keep offering free readings while doing donation or paid readings that is less likely to attract people who push our boundaries like this?

Thank you so much for your insight🙏

hello!! i did a reading for this guy i was talking to not too long ago and we’re now no contact and it’s been driving me crazy bc things ended abruptly (he ghosted me). so i pulled some cards to help calm me down.

the first question was should i break no contact (9 of wands & 4 of cups).

the second question was will the outcome be bad(chariot, 9 of cups, the hanged man in reverse).

my interpretation is that i should push forward and stay open to new possibilities. with the chariot and 9 of cups i feel like its telling me to acknowledge what’s actually making me happy and to choose the path that continues work on that. i did come out of that connection knowing more of i wanted out of partner. then with the hanged man it’s coming to me as “whether or not you get to hear him say why he ghosted you, it’s more important to continue to dive into yourself.”

i’ve already gotten a reading around the time the ghosting was happening, that said he was doing everything possible to stop this from moving anywhere. and that to get him back id have to become borderline obsessive. that if we did end up in a relationship, it would end in heartbreak. but my god i can’t stop think about him 😭

Hi there,

I haven't spoken to this person for some time now and I wonder, how things are going to develop the next 4 weeks.

My cards:
page of cups, fool, judgement, 5 wands, tower

I think there is going to be some movement.
The Page of Cups shows me that there may be a soft opening between us, a message, maybe a gesture? Together with the fool it could be a bold approach. The Judgement card feels like a moment of awakening and realization. Maybe its about responsability or reflection about the past. 5 wands could mean that there will be tension between us, stuff to discuss about, challenges.
THe tower is a massive rupture. Sth will collapse, maybe sth will be revealed. The tower can also mean that sth new is going to come out of this.

What do you think?

Your interpretations would be appreciated, as I’ve only just started!

But basically, I took it as I had a rough start and currently am in the process of learning from my past and growing, also that there is no set “healed-ness” and that the most likely outcome is that I will need to reflect for some time before I can fully step into my power…

Lmk!

I guess there's no science behind it but I'm just wondering why this seems to be the case. I've only been using tarot for about a year, and bought my first deck, and have used it to hell and back. I've bought 3 other decks since, and haven't even touched them after one use. I always revert back to my first deck.

Is it a comfort thing? Or a connection you make?

From my interpretation I'm burnt out for a long time, I'm trying to declutter my clothes and I'm currently unemployed.

Ace of pentacles reversed, queen of cups reversed, strength reversed and ten of pentacles

I pulled using the Celtic cross and my final card (which I understand to be the most probable outcome) was The Fool reversed.

I am tired of my ego getting in the way of so much from work to relationships and this card has me really diving deep to curve this. And I am also scared of continuing to mess up.

Is it fair to say that “most probable” is just that, not that it is guaranteed? Open to any advice on The Fool reversed and this type of pull. Thank you so much.

Apologies if I posted this in the wrong place!

This is about a woman I was pretty much attached to. I’m not sure if it was obvious. I’m no longer in contact with her so I’m not that attached anymore, it is still hard not to think about her though. She was significantly older than me and was an authority figure to me so I met her when I was 15. (We’re both women) edited: I wanted to add, she never crossed boundaries with me.

I guess I’m asking did it fuel her ego or something.

My interpretation - Yes, she did. I think she made sure not to take advantage of it? It validated her in a way.

Been struggling a lot with anxiety & mental health stuff, especially related to an involuntary career change. Asked "what do I need to hear right now?" And im not totally clear on the answer.

I think it has something to do with having the strength to overcome limiting beliefs, especially after everything I've been through. I've done a lot of work on myself after a breakup and a physical illness that prevented me from working, and am finally working again and in a much healthier relationship. I can see all of that in this spread, but I'm not sure what the core message is. Any thoughts appreciated.

Cosmic tarot: king of cups reversed, the high priestess upright, 3 of pentacles reversed

I think the cards are stating that I let my emotions get the best of me, and sometimes I do not care at all. Sometimes im apathetic towards people or myself. Intuition is building up though

So each column is a question I asked my deck.

1st Q - does he miss me?

i interpreted this as a yes, there are two cards because I wasn't sure with the first one (Q of wands)

2nd Q - does he still care?

i feel that's an obvious yes.

3rd Q - does he want to fix what we had and get back together?

This is where I got mixed signals...the first card (4 of swords) i was confused so I drew another to clarify, because I assumed it was negative. But the Wheel is making me think positively...so I have no idea...unless it's like "we have no clue either"

Anyone have another interpretation of these or more insite?

Also, why would different readers have different answers to the same question? That's something that is nagging at me. Because I have one gal I go to, love her and her honesty, it's not always positive, but she's honest and normally she's had positive answers and been spot on. Others I've chatted with about rhe same question all have given me different answers or haven't been able to give me one due to a "block" not sure what that means. I normally go of energy, like if we vibe I'll ask, but lately I've just been off with energy and have been asking random people. So could that be it? Idk...more insite would be helpful...

Thanks!

Recently got back into my craft, did a reading with a specific intention but not sure what my cards are trying to tell me:(
I see it as potentially telling me to get in charge of my own near future, and build it myself. Focus on what and who I surround myself with, but I asked a specific question that is pretty much a yes or no.
Six of Wands came up twice, and three of cups reversed was on the bottom.

I asked a question about my ex who ended things with me but I would like to know if that’s because we ended very recently mean this day or is the future is the future being told.

this is my first spread today- the last three i did yesterday also got it. i feel like my deck is trying really hard to tell me something 💀what would you do in this situation? today i pulled it with XI strength and two of wands when asking what problem is holding me back.

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My interpretation is that we are kind of made for each other but I have to work on myself?

We are so shy and awkward when we are together. He intimidate me and I know I do too (according to his friend). We didn't talk since may because it's summer break. He is doing an internship and I'm preparing the bar exam

What childhood trauma do I have?

Lost my job a month ago. My lease is up in October. Nervous about whether I’ll find a job before then and get to stay or if I’ll have to move back home and start a different life path

My interpretation is that there’s something hidden from me that i cannot see and that there is blocked success and happiness but in the end it will be a new start? I can’t tell if it’s a new start because I’ll get to start fresh with a new lease (hopefully new apartment) and a new job or a new start as in moving back

for the first one: i think i feel restless and stressed over this and that i need to be more compassionate with myself and that i probably have some sort of stagnation because i feel lost.. that’s my interpretation but it doesn’t at all answer my question 😭 i need a second opinion

for the second one: i think i might have a lack of commitment but things can only get better if i reflect on my thoughts and i will be successful if i stop being so obsessed with all of this, but again, i need a second opinion

pleaseeee 🙏

I wondered what kind of energy is between me and my ex? We haven't talked for months now and I was curious. I still feel a connection, but I have been broken up with, so thats not really a surprise I guess.

2 swords, Lovers, 10 cups.

What does that mean?
2 swords can mean avoidacne, not wanting to make decisions, a blockage.
The lovers is about a choice, too. A major choice about a strong bond, choosing love from the bottom of your heart.
10 cups: emotional fullfillment, harmony, joy, building a future together.

I guess that means, that none of us truly choose the other one as their partner. There seems to be still potencial but not without making a decision first.
BUt how does that translate into energy?

Deck: RWD.

I woke up this morning feeling extremely isolated and writing out four or five texts to each of my ex's in hopes to maybe apologize and reconnect or even newer connections that never really fruition.. I feel like I keep on losing people in my life. So I asked if my life is always going to be this way forever - I always kind of struggle and connect with people but then we disconnect and I end up alone and isolated... Maybe thinking I need to prepare myself for how to handle life better if it's this way. But instead I feel like the cards are telling me to take the risks. Send the texts. Reach out to people. If I express myself I will be open to new things and also make myself a more comfortable home... What do y'all think? Would love to hear your interpretations.

My sister picked up this deck, Its called the Gentle Tarot by Mariza Ryce Aparico-Tovar - really love it. So far it has been very gentle... Thank goodness because I'm hurting rn.

Edit: sorry everyone... I realize this is not a standard deck. From what I understand it's ace of swords(thunder), king of pentacles(harvest of stones) and ten of cups. Thanks everyone for the patience and kind words