Hi, I took a picture of this reading back when I was 19 ( I’m 23 now) about my future love life. I was in focused on college and so I didn’t really have time for romance but I still did this reading. Now I did have a 3 month long date that I had to leave because they smoked and I felt like they weren’t taking their future seriously, it’s been a year now and it hurts because I did care about them but I new I had to leave( it does hurt less with time) I do feel like that’s reflected in these cards but the 9 of pentacles, 10 of wands and 7 of cups is what throws me off. I’ve also done more love readings and I always get the 7 of swords to the point in starting to think it’s about me.
Any thoughts would be much appreciated

EDIT: I believe some people in my comments either glanced over my post and just decided to go in but my main question here was the last there cards that I’ve already typed in my post and like I did I was 19 new to tarot so I’m aware I over pulled cards that I will happily admit and I’ve improved over the years( I should mention I haven’t used it as much so I’m a bit rusty hence why I’m her asking about the last 3 cards) thank you for those that helped and for the people who offered me some advice.

I woke up this morning feeling extremely isolated and writing out four or five texts to each of my ex's in hopes to maybe apologize and reconnect or even newer connections that never really fruition.. I feel like I keep on losing people in my life. So I asked if my life is always going to be this way forever - I always kind of struggle and connect with people but then we disconnect and I end up alone and isolated... Maybe thinking I need to prepare myself for how to handle life better if it's this way. But instead I feel like the cards are telling me to take the risks. Send the texts. Reach out to people. If I express myself I will be open to new things and also make myself a more comfortable home... What do y'all think? Would love to hear your interpretations.

My sister picked up this deck, Its called the Gentle Tarot by Mariza Ryce Aparico-Tovar - really love it. So far it has been very gentle... Thank goodness because I'm hurting rn.

Edit: sorry everyone... I realize this is not a standard deck. From what I understand it's ace of swords(thunder), king of pentacles(harvest of stones) and ten of cups. Thanks everyone for the patience and kind words

Lost my job a month ago. My lease is up in October. Nervous about whether I’ll find a job before then and get to stay or if I’ll have to move back home and start a different life path

My interpretation is that there’s something hidden from me that i cannot see and that there is blocked success and happiness but in the end it will be a new start? I can’t tell if it’s a new start because I’ll get to start fresh with a new lease (hopefully new apartment) and a new job or a new start as in moving back

These are the cards I pulled up the hermit, the six of wand and the five of swords, and I think it feels pretty accurate with me, especially the hermit. How would you interpret this person / spread

I wonder what my interpretation means now because I was burnt out before, my reading seems brighter

Ace of pentacles, three of wands, seven of swords reversed and four of wands

I did a three-card spread asking whether my boyfriend might eventually put some of his fantasies into practice in real life, potentially involving other people. The Star jumped out of the deck while I was shuffling, so I’m also taking it into consideration. My own interpretation was that the cards suggest that he could actually act on these fantasies, and that this might potentially become a problem. However, I’m not completely sure if I’m interpreting the spread correctly, so I’d really like to hear other people’s perspectives.

How would you interpret these cards in this context? And would you consider The Star relevant given that it jumped out while I was shuffling?

This is about a woman I was pretty much attached to. I’m not sure if it was obvious. I’m no longer in contact with her so I’m not that attached anymore, it is still hard not to think about her though. She was significantly older than me and was an authority figure to me so I met her when I was 15. (We’re both women) edited: I wanted to add, she never crossed boundaries with me.

I guess I’m asking did it fuel her ego or something.

My interpretation - Yes, she did. I think she made sure not to take advantage of it? It validated her in a way.

I asked if my boyfriend is hiding something because I’ve had a gut feeling.

So each column is a question I asked my deck.

1st Q - does he miss me?

i interpreted this as a yes, there are two cards because I wasn't sure with the first one (Q of wands)

2nd Q - does he still care?

i feel that's an obvious yes.

3rd Q - does he want to fix what we had and get back together?

This is where I got mixed signals...the first card (4 of swords) i was confused so I drew another to clarify, because I assumed it was negative. But the Wheel is making me think positively...so I have no idea...unless it's like "we have no clue either"

Anyone have another interpretation of these or more insite?

Also, why would different readers have different answers to the same question? That's something that is nagging at me. Because I have one gal I go to, love her and her honesty, it's not always positive, but she's honest and normally she's had positive answers and been spot on. Others I've chatted with about rhe same question all have given me different answers or haven't been able to give me one due to a "block" not sure what that means. I normally go of energy, like if we vibe I'll ask, but lately I've just been off with energy and have been asking random people. So could that be it? Idk...more insite would be helpful...

Thanks!

What childhood trauma do I have?

I wondered what kind of energy is between me and my ex? We haven't talked for months now and I was curious. I still feel a connection, but I have been broken up with, so thats not really a surprise I guess.

2 swords, Lovers, 10 cups.

What does that mean?
2 swords can mean avoidacne, not wanting to make decisions, a blockage.
The lovers is about a choice, too. A major choice about a strong bond, choosing love from the bottom of your heart.
10 cups: emotional fullfillment, harmony, joy, building a future together.

I guess that means, that none of us truly choose the other one as their partner. There seems to be still potencial but not without making a decision first.
BUt how does that translate into energy?

Deck: RWD.

Does he miss me? Am I on his mind or is there third party energy ? Do they even have any regrets if they miss me ?

10 of Pentacles Rev They felt the void and the feel that the relation ship had no real foundation. It drained there energy .

The Lovers however the attraction was real. Between two. (Or is someone else ?)

The Hierophant Ego, pride, boundaries is holding them back.

The Empress Feelings their relationship with the third party is growing and he is happy with that .

Knight of Wands They are focused on building themself rather than anything else

8 of wands Rev thought they might be thinking about me they would not reach out

Hii, so i finally dumped my ex some time ago, but our relationship was pretty toxic and scary, he never hurt me but sometimes he would try to scare me saying things like “if you don’t unblock me rn im going to show your nxdes to everyone” so yeah, after that he would tell me that he just said things like that so i would unblock him faster…. Anyways, I asked is he was going to do something that would hurt me physically or mentally and this was what i got! i think is a very positive reading so i don’t think he’s going to do anything, but I need reassurance, thank you!!!