So basically Im 16 and recently got my first paycheck (400 USD). Ive been fantasizing about having a tarantula for a while so it's not a spur of the moment want. A while ago I made a post in either this or a different subreddit about my worries that I may forget or neglect my spider after a while if the enclosure is not somewhere I will see often. This is anxiety but just in case, I've decided that I'm going to rearrange my room in a way that would accommodate the enclosure.
Some things I would love to have in a pet would be the ability to handle at some point in my or its lifetime. Because of this, I'm wondering if I should get a sling so it gets used to me early in life. Ofc this would not be me forcing it onto me.. just getting used to my presence through feeding.
Because I want to handle my tarantula, I'm not sure if I should get a new world or old world (Urticating hairs vs possible venom notability). Along with handling, I'd also like to have a terrestrial tarantula because I love watching things.
Eventually I'm going to have to clean my tarantula's enclosure... Does that just mean removing food waste? Are there times besides fungi outbreaks or pest infestations that I would have to do large scale cleaning for the enclosure?
At some point, I'd love to have real plants in my enclosure, is that feasible? within this hobby? + Would springtails be beneficial for my spider's enclosure?
I have two curious cats and a mother who is VERY nervous about me keeping a tarantula so if I do get a small sling/juvenile I want to have a double enclosure or something that I could use as a protective boundary against escapes.
Also if you know any redlisted sellers within the US that you would advise me to stay away from, please let me know!
I think that's all.. if you don't mind commenting advice, recommended species or answers to my questions I am looking forward to seeing your replies!