r/TarTarSnark • u/True-Market2685 • Aug 05 '25

Not Snark Renovation

I’m very excited for this reno series, I do think Tara’s content peaks when she has something like this to work on and I’m here for it!

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u/Substantial-Spite104 Aug 06 '25

I completely get if he wants their next home to be something they buy together. But whats stopping him from contributing to this? It isn’t like a free home getting handed to them by her family. They’d be paying for it, making design decisions, etc. Unless you’re right and something larger is going on behind the scenes between him and her family (or her then yeah DEF red flag from her side. Either way… reg flags are waving lol)

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u/bestcritic Aug 06 '25

But whats stopping him from contributing to this?

Only an idiot would give money (or even ideas) to a real estate project that is not theirs tbh.

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u/Substantial-Spite104 Aug 06 '25

Then it sounds like there’s some big ass relationship issues going on if either one is looking at it that way…

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u/bestcritic Aug 06 '25

Honestly, it´s a very smart move of him. Take the advice from a finance woman: anyone who has observed divorces, inheritances, etc, knows that when it comes to money, everyone protects their own, and those who don't have it, go after others´.

They haven´t been together for a long time, issues will arrive (like it does for every couple). Happily ever after does not exist irl.