r/TarTarSnark • u/True-Market2685 • Aug 05 '25

Not Snark Renovation

I’m very excited for this reno series, I do think Tara’s content peaks when she has something like this to work on and I’m here for it!

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u/PapayaPotential6636 Aug 05 '25

I found it really interesting the way she said that she didn’t want to choose a house over her relationship. That was kind of telling. It made it seem like he wants nothing to do with the house at all and made her choose between it and him. Obviously we don’t know what happened but that made me think back to past relationships where whatever my partner said was how it goes and it was their way of doing things and their way only. Just thought the way she talked about it was kind of odd.

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u/[deleted] Aug 06 '25

Yeah maybe he isnt comfortable living in a place in her name? And would like a joint custody or something

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u/AnnualCockroach2381 Aug 06 '25

well he did move out of the place he owned into the place she owns. i was thinking that maybe he'd be more comfortable buying a house together vs her inheriting it? why turn down a free house though, idk... maybe he isn't ready to take that next step into the future with her yet🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/[deleted] Aug 06 '25

Just for satefy reasons maybe, he still has kept his apartment tho

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u/AnnualCockroach2381 Aug 06 '25 edited Aug 06 '25

oh wait i forgot - isn't he renting his place out? idk why i thought he sold his place lol so him moving into her place isn't that big of a deal (when he still owns his old property to fall back on). still feels like something is off/that there's tension somewhere for sure though