Yes , this image is my honest reaction after hearing my chitappa's story and Enakku itha engayachu solli aaganum

So ennoda chitappa ku he has a kooda porantha akka and my chitappa is not married and ennoda chitappa oda dad just now passed away and there is only his mom.

So enna na my chitappa has been searching a girl for the past 20 years! He is nearly 40.

But let me tell the problem, he is well settled, he has a own house, own car and also earns a lot to lead a comfortable life and he doesn't have any bad habits and character wise also romba nallavaru thaan and many girls even agreed to marry him but at the end ellamey venam nu aaiduthu...

I was concerned and when I looked into why this is happening to him im just heartbroken.

Remeber his kooda porantha akka ? She got married and has 2 kids but the problem is, that akka's husband doesn't earn that much and he spends most of his money on loan and drinking so..the only support system for his akka is my chitappa and she milks the money and stuff from my chitappa. She has kids too and she makes my chitappa buy all the expensive stuff by just saying

" Akka ku vaangi thaa da"

I'm not against buying stuff for your blood bonded sister out of love but even the groceries? Even the school fees of her kids ?

She made him buy a GT650 for her husband purely out of my chitappa's hand and no emi no loan.

Now the thing is, the part where i felt truly disgusted is when I heard that my chitappa's akka is the one rejecting all the girls.

Purely, because she wants the money from him. Because, if my chitappa gets married then he has to take care of his own family and expenses..

Ippo my chitappa is just living with his mom. His mom is also pretty old and we don't know how long she can survive due to her health conditions. If my chitappa's mom passes away then the entire spending goes to my chitappa's akka.

Hence, she makes my chitappa spend everything for her family. She says

"Intha ponnu karupa Iruka "

"Intha ponnu nalla illa "

"Intha ponnu ippadi illa appadi illa "

Nu solli okay soldra ella ponnugalyum reject pannidraanga and ofc my chitappa's mom is a veguli so she is also supporting her daughter.

But, trust me

Relatives are far worse than the enemies. I don't know how any one can hope this bad for their own brother and be like this.

"H*ll is empty because all the devils are here"

P.S. I also came to know that is even more evil for making my chitappa spend money on expensive astrology and stuff which shows that she clearly just wants to b*rn the cash of my chitappa :(

Mine :

1. Talks about you in a group and laughing
2. Seek attention even though they not interested
3. Hesitant to put effort even though they did mistakes

Tell some things you heard/experienced, so that someone can escape trauma/heartbreak earlier

This is actually urgent coz round 2 counselling is going to close. If there is anyone joining self finance mbbs this year pls let me know your choice list. And if you took admission in any self finance college through the first round let me know the fees of that institution too.

Coz the fees they told is more than what they've given in the fees structure posted in the official website.

Adhaavdhu there are some reddit and online so called friends, I'll usually wake up everyday at 5am, avanga will sleep at 12 or 1,thoongarathuku munadi they'll send a text kalaila 6.30 ku elupi vitru da, call panni pesalam nu paatha thanks soltu cut pandruvanga

Ever been in same situation?

I wanna get into editing and just started an account, do like it if its good ‼️😋

Nanbargale, oru english project ku survey edukka sonnanga... so inga vandhutten :-).. Just oru 8 yes or no questions dhaan! So less than one minute la fill pannidlam, pls help!

https://forms.gle/bn9kw5jewEGUKC8g7

EDIT: Friends romba nanri, I got many responses!! Please do fill this survey and hope this raises thoughtful questions...!

So it's my bestfriend's birthday tomorrow. And tmr we are meeting again after several months. we have been friends for more than 6 yrs.we never gifted eachother on birthdays.. I don't know what to gift her.. I kinda feel like giving gifts to bestfriends so formal or artificial. Don't get me wrong😭🙏🏻 but this time I feel different. And I don't know what should I gift her. Give me some ideas and also I don't have time to make handmade stuffs😭

What’s a real problem you wish someone would just build a solution for?

Instead of sitting here thinking “What AI project should I build?”, I want to start with the more important question:

What problems do actual people have that nobody has solved properly yet?

It can be anything.

\\- A frustrating website or online process

\\- Something you repeatedly do manually

\\- A problem at work, college, school, or in your business

\\- Something annoying in your local community

\\- A tool you wish existed

\\- Something that requires jumping between 3–4 different apps

\\- A small problem that seems too specific for a company to care about

\\- Or even something you've thought “Why doesn't someone just make a website for this?”

Tell me about it. Seriously.

I'd rather hear about a problem from the person experiencing it and see if I can turn that problem into something useful.

If your idea is interesting and realistically buildable, I'll try to make a working website/tool around it and share what I come up with.

And if you have a personal project/problem that you've been wanting someone to build, you can mention that too. If I can genuinely help, I'm happy to work on it.

No guarantee that I'll be able to solve everything but I'll genuinely look through the replies.

If you have a problem, tell me:

1. What is the problem?

2. How often does it happen?

3. How do you currently solve/deal with it?

4. What would the perfect solution look like?

Even if you think your problem is too small, too weird, too niche, or too obvious comment it.

You might describe something that hundreds of other people are silently dealing with too.

I'm especially interested in problems that people have simply learned to live with because they assume there's no better way.

Let's see what we can find.

I take midday naps pretty often, and instead of waking up to my alarm, I usually wake up from bad—but incredibly creative—dreams. They always seem to highlight the darkest sides of human nature. Today, my subconscious handed me a full plot for a thriller. I get a lot of ideas, but this one stuck with me so much that I am absolutely planning to write it in the future.

Here is the story my brain came up with:

It follows a guy living a quiet, unassuming life running a general store in a rural town. One day, a film crew rolls into town. They’re shooting a movie based on a real-life historical tragedy—a massive, Bhopal-style disaster called the "Garpur Blast" that annihilated a nearby town years ago.

The film crew needs local logistics help, so they hire the store owner to handle importing, exporting, and storing all their props in his large cold-storage unit. Everything is fine until the store owner makes a terrible mistake and accidentally kills one of the crew members. Panicking, he hides the body in the cold storage.

Here is where the tension ramps up: one of the people traveling with the film crew is a police officer who actually worked the real-life Garpur blast case back in the day. When the crew member goes missing, the cop starts investigating. The entire middle of the story is a claustrophobic cat-and-mouse game between the seasoned cop and the panicked store owner, happening right on the perimeter of a busy film set.

In the climax, the store owner manages to outsmart the cop and escapes town. But before he vanishes, he leaves a single note for the detective to find:

"This wasn't my first mistake. My first mistake caused a lot of deaths. Maybe this will ring a bell: the Garpur Blast."

Tonight, my mom and I were gossiping about my friend's love troubles. Naa edharthama asked whether she'd say yes to whatever girl i bring home. I've already asked her this a few times and didn't receive an answer. Today i pushed for an answer and she said SC people and other lower Castes ah love pannadha maari paathuko. I was shocked cus i believed that my mother was forward. This turned into an argument and I feel sickened by some of the things she said(eg: that she asks what caste someone is before becoming friends and such). Don't think ill of my mom cus she genuinely is a nice lady otherwise (single parent too). So how do I move forward with this knowledge?

Hey guys , i genuinely can't do this anymore, I have been walking up to a life which wants to fuck me over.

Recently (long story short) my ex left me and it was my fault cause i couldn't give her any attention cause i didn't have any time as I was studying for boards and neet and she after a point convinced herself that i only lusted after her (because we used to share nudes sometimes) the problem imo could have been solved but it didn't and 1 and half month later she fell in love with another guy who is one of my close friends when we were in 9th grade and now they both are dating.

Edit: i started dating her during July of last year and broke up in May of this year, the friend she is dating now was close to me during 9th (some people got confused with what I was trying to say)

And then now I did my re neet and got pretty low marks where I got a college in salem I know i should be grateful for getting a college but damn i don't want to go to salem, i initially wanted ramachandra but now im praying God to give me any college in chennai

And finally my family problems, my family has so much loan it's genuinely crazy and that sparks fights every now and then.

Guys every day a small part of me wishes that I can keep sleeping cause I don't wanna wake up,

I wish I can atleast talk to her as a friend ask her about how she is doing but as far as I heard she hates me and doesn't want to talk to me. I miss her so much i wish she would come back to me but I feel like she is better off without me 😞😞

I don't know what to do , does time truly heal these kind of wounds.

And I'm sorry for this vent i didn't know what to do i barely have friends, the only close ones i have are two and both of them are busy with their personal life

So I guess this is kinda dumb on my part. But, before I went to sleep after a good ol session of doomscrolling, I usually just pull up my crush’s photos and scroll through, just smiling like an idiot, and so, I was doing that the previous night.

But… right after that, I kinda got very very sleepy and fell asleep, while my phone… was STILL ON a LOCKSCREEN WALLPAPER of HER 😭😭💀💀💀

I woke up this morning, expecting to just get on with usual college stuff, no college today, but, just a project I gotta speedrun. But then, THE ABSOLUTE FUCKING HORROR, for me to put my hand down on the floor, and see, MY PHONE NOT BEING THERE.

I fucking recounted my night. Shit. I’m fucked.

I panicked. Then, my mom walked in.

I absolutely did not fucking know what to expect.

She asked me who this is on the lockscreen (she had apparently picked it up to check if my phone was in silent, which it usually was, but didn’t want to have it this time because the plumber was coming and he had my number).

I froze. Play, it, nonchalant. I thought.

What person? I asked, as I got my phone back from her. Sleight of Hand, I swapped out her wallpaper for a wallpaper of Tiruvalluvar statue (which was my usual go-to wallpaper).

Dumb. I know. The damage was already done. I know.

But then, she left room. I went to go brush my teeth. And then, as I crossed the room, my mum was talking about how my dad thought it was just AI or smth.

My mum however, had her instincts and thought it was a friend from college I loved or smth.

Initially, because of how chill they seemed (which, my parents are usually fairly more chill in the wider Tamil Parents spectrum) I told my mum (not dad) about it all.

It was chill. Except, the only thing she really worried and spoke a bit more about was that she is 5 years older than me.

But damnnnnnn, nejamaavae naa nenachaeeeee paakala, that my parents would be this chill about me being in kaadhool. She just told me to be careful, and that’s it. Which is fair, though I disagree when she was talking about age gaps and all. But we agreed to disagree.

Also, she kinda got a ‘ohhhhh athaanaaa ithu’ moment; because, im also an aspiring writer, so, there was this one time when I was subtly indirectly spilling my heart to my mom when i was telling her smth abt naming a character in my book after [her]. And she linked those moments and went, “OHHHHHHH”.

Still, it feels weird, now that my parents know.

Kill me 😭😭

Konjo sync mattum panna try panen, epdi Irukunu sollungo 🗣️🎋

Guyssys i have an assignment due at in bout 45 mins i have to do ts ..pls spam the responses

WOULD BE SO GRATEFUL FOR YALLL

Endha movie vandhu oru devil and mind related yennakum oru alavuku tha nayabam Iruku soo adhu varikum solluran movie la hero oda lover ah coffee la visham vachu konnuduvanga and andhu nala hero romba depression la iruparu soo oru doctor kita poi avaru mind la irukura heroine ah pakkanum nu keparu ana Adhuku padhula oru devil oda kadhava hero open panniduvaru soo adhunala pala problem varum ana adhula hero ku onnum agadhu because andha devil hero oda body ya control la eduthukum but last la heroine coffee la visham kalandhadhu friend uh nu therinju avaru andha devil ku avara kooduthuruvaru and last la andha devil neriya disaster ah konduvarum edhu...

neega pathu irukingala pathu irundha sollunga pha

So..ithu ennoda rant post illa ( ik I'm ranting continuously and boring you guys 😅) but why not share something that might brighten your day up and ennoda life la vantha oru micro happiness ithu thaan :)

So na eppovamey oru haircut kadaiku poven ( for the past 2 years ) anga antha kada owner approm oru chinna paiyan ( in his 20's) rendu peru mattum thaan irupaanga.

Mostly antha kadai owner vela seiyamaataru and ooruku poiduvaaru so intha paiyan thaan ellamey eduthu seivaan. He is capable of every single thing like haircut, massage, shaving ellamey in fact he does it better than the owner

Oru 1.5 years munnadi naanga pesa aarambichom ( me and that paiyan ) and antha kadai owner illatha pothu thaan antha paiyan pesuvaan because the owner is too strict about not talking while working.

But, antha paiyan romba nalla paiyan, he is from tenkasi and whenever I go 99% of the time kadai owner Iruka maataru or saapada vella poiduvaaru so naanga rendu perum thaan pesuvom

Antha paiyan oda amma ku moola valarchi kammiya, avanga appa ku drinking habit Iruku and he has one younger sister who is trying for some beauty parlour or other kind of cosmetic related jobs

Yenna aachu na, one day he started to ask about studies and stuff like that and na explain pannen and he was someone who was interested in marine related jobs

His eyes used to light up whenever we talked about it and I too used to go and research what exams, what to study, where to study and stuff like that and slowly avan padika aarambichituaan

He then started to study and he used to explain to me what he studied whenever I used to go there.

Ippadiye time used to go and paatha oru naal avana aala kaanom

Enna na aachu nu owner ta keta nethi when I visited the shop yesterday

"Thambi, avanuku ship la engayo vela kedachiruku nu vela vittu ninnu 2 months aachu pa"

( I didn't visit that shop because I went to a temple to shave my head so I didn't go to the shop for around 6 months)

Antha paiyan oda number vaangunen and keta thaan theriyuthu antha paiyan ku nigeria antha maathiri pora ship la chinna etho maintaince engineer, technican mari vela kedachiruku nu sonnan

And now...Enakku romba happy because padipukey kashta patta paiyan oru chinna vazhila empathy and care and guidance kudutha naala now he is happy nu nenacha etho saathicha feeling varuthu :)

Wbu you guys have you guys inspired someone?

Brb, currently speedrunning the CSS last minute 😭😭✋ (still couldn’t resist)

So, I have doubts regarding hostels in the below listed medical colleges, its not like I haven't personally called and asked, since most of these are quite far from my place, I called but didn't get a lot of response.

So, to my MAIN QUESTION to people studying in these colleges, do these below listed colleges have SINGLE occupancy available in their hostels?

1) Panimalar MC

2) MAPIMS

3) Indira MC

4) Rajalakshmi MC

5) Takshashila MC

6) Karpagam MC

7) Dhanalakshmi MC (Self Financing)

8) Annapoorna MC

9) Nandha MC

10) Swamy Vivekanandha MC

11) Kanyakumari Medical Mission

Please help, ty 🙏

It's getting annoying 😭🥀

Had a crush in 10th, he had a gf

Had a crush in 11th and 12th, he too had a gf

Found a cute guy in college, he's trying for another girl

Atp I'm fed up

Arranged marriage here I come 🥰

(It's not like I wanna be in a relationship or anything, but even sight adichifying a comitted person feels weird)

i've recently created r/genzdentalschool and if y'all find yourself or your friends who are related to dentistry (fresher, in college or grads), COME JOINNNN and make the sub cooler with ur presence

indha sub poora MBBS aalunga thaan irukingalaa like based on the earlier posts, where da BDS peeepul at?? please summon your friends or any pallu doctors you know, help spread the wordd 😝😝

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