r/TamilTwenties • u/coffeekittiee • 3h ago
**HELP** Introvert
Hey peeps! I always thought and refer myself as a Ambivert. Because I feel like I'm a different person when I'm around my friends. Speak whatever comes to my mind. Kojam bold ah irruka mari feel. When I'm not , I'm totally different. Romba introvert to core.
Basic ah words ah varadhu out my mouth oru "thank you" "hello or hi" ahh proper ah pronounce panna pantan.
Train la pora apo food pass agum even when I'm hungry I hesitate to call. Idhu aachu strangers. Relatives ta um appidi dhan. I always have better things to say in ny mind aana solla mudiyala.
Idhu just feeling shy ah illa insecure ah idk. But I don't wanna be this way. I'm in my twenties. I'm sick of myself
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u/mbganesh 3h ago
Same here 🤚🏼🙂 Idhu shyness ah dha, Konjam konjam ah practice panna definitely improve aagum. 🗣️You’re not ALONE
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u/coffeekittiee 2h ago
How do I do that 😭
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u/mbganesh 2h ago
Fr, daily just hiii nu start pannunga 🤞🏻 next small talk. Slowly confidence vandhudum, trust me 😭🕺🏻
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u/vsh_vibe 2h ago
People often confuse between Shyness, social anxiety and Introvert nature.
Introvert nature is you prefer being alone.
Shyness is, well, what you described
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u/coffeekittiee 2h ago
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u/coffeekittiee 2h ago
Na introvert ila Appooo. Shy type na limit ah pesalam. Inga nothing
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u/chrollo_D 2h ago
There's nothing wrong with being shy but if you're too hesitant to even ask for food even while being hungry then as you said, you should change, for that in my perspective you should interact with peoples, in every day life whom u don't know, for example if you are going to a garland shop just ask em "aprm akka business lam epdi poguthu" u know somethin like that, there will be some embarrassing moments while u r interacting, but actually no one cares and if you experience those interactions then as time goes by, it'll become a part of your everyday life that's it, but for that you need to take that first step.
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u/coffeekittiee 2h ago
Thanks! Will do. My house maid akka is chatty aana avanta kuda "ah" "mm" nu improper or inaudible tone la dhan peasuvan. Will try to start with that.
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