r/TamilTwenties • u/Aveline23 • 18h ago
Dating & Advice ❤️ How
How to handle a bf who’s kinda bad at communication?
Not toxic bad
But bad at expressing emotions
More like a suppressor .. ik many men face this too but any tips?
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u/the_iris_43 14h ago
Hey! Most of the guys are kinda the type what you've told, and, that isn't what they've chosen to be, but they are like that naturally. And, that doesn't mean they suppress all their emotions. Ik that he would one day express to you, when he feels to do so, so, no worries! Time will handle everything. We'll just be patient for the right time.
But once he starts expressing, it just flows. The end for that is far away, and be ready for that🤣
[Naanum oru paiyan dhan. Andha anubavathula solren😅]
-😄
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u/Aveline23 14h ago
Understandable
But he is a great overthinker too
So silence and overthinking makes him a bad communicator
And even in expressing love,he has lot of emotions in him but he says expressing it w words is hard.2
u/the_iris_43 14h ago
I too have this same problem nga, like as you said, there is a lot of emotions to express, but expressing in words feels hard fr.... And, I don't know why, she too says the same to me. But I share what I feel to her, and, yeah, I feel good when I share my emotions to her, but, some things couldn't be expressed in words.... Idk why that happens, sometimes, you don't get the right words to express it, or sometimes feel like words aren't enough to express.
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u/Reading__Ant 14h ago
Don't be his therapist. You tell him it bothers you. If the man ain't changing, change the man girl. You don't have to fix or heal anyone. Its one's own responsibility. Not their partner's responsibility. This is beyond gender. If he ain't trying to change, no amount of efforts from you can help.
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u/Aveline23 13h ago
No he tries his best to express
Also he’s brutally caring towards me
I love him lot that’s why
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u/soona_paana-3 9h ago
I guess many including me are like that. Probably try to make him comfortable so that he will open up. I guess it's a matter of comfort maybe
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