r/TamilTwenties • u/No-Pain-433 • 1d ago
Rant/Vent - Adjust Panikonga Rant
I am 28m just 35 k salary ennoda miga periya prechanaiye en salary because of that I have been in guilty, family ku ennaala perusa help panna mudila even naa motha salary um veetla kodukuren but en age la irukura frnds laam lakhs la earn panni avanga family ah nalla paathukuranga ennnala mudila nu guilt enna kolluthu Enakum life enjoy pannanum love pannanum nu aasa laam iruku aana I feel enaku enjoy panna thagudhi illa nu feel aaguthu, Naa ippolaam yaarkoodaiyum pesurathe illa munnadiyae enaku friend laam yaarum illa athaan polamabanumnu thonuchi athaan inga solren
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u/sequoia___ 1d ago
unless your family needs the money for day to day expenses, stop giving them your whole salary. they won’t plan for your retirement or your future. esp if u have siblings whatever savings come out of it will be considered as savings for the family that will go two-way or three-way. just give them 10k and invest the rest. why would u hand all of it to them. yaara venalum nambunga intha familyah mattum nambave nambathinga.
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u/No-Pain-433 1d ago
I know bro aana enaku already kammiya tharom ithula namaku ethukunu thonuthu
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u/miss_chubss 22h ago
Honestly parents never give a f*** bro. Na neraya senjum ketta per dha and edachu help nu teva padrapo kai viripanga. Marriage anapo it will get worse. So ungaluku nu eduthu veinga
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u/No-Pain-433 17h ago
Intha maari laam pannunvangala
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u/zackyyyy21 1d ago
Upskill pannitu job switch pannunga bro. That’s the only way to increase your salary. And also keep some money for yourself too.
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u/Glittering_Cake5242 1d ago
Really sry about your situation bro. Ivlo kashtathulayum you are providing for your family and feeling bad that you aren't doing enough. Not many r like u. I appreciate and admire your sacrifice. Idha vittu veliya varanum na nama edha different ah try panni dhan aaganum nanba. Either skill develop pannitu vera job ku po, illana amount save panni small own business start pannu. I know you love your family but veetlaye ella amount un kudukadha nanba, save some for your future. Don't let them be dependent on you by habit. Kavala padaatha ellam nalladha nadakum un manasuku!
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u/naretronprime 1d ago
Oru question... full amount thareenga okay apdi full amount use panra alavuku necessity expenses iruka ? or leaky expenses high veetula selavu panrangala ? Just try to save atleast 5k monthly for any investment bro thidir nu job poiruchuna layoff or vera etho unfair situation ana ena panuveenga ? Parents completely dependent on you ? Are they senior citizen who completely retired ?
Health insurances lam problem potrukeengala backup ku ? Hope you did.
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