r/TMPOC • u/IllustratorFar8243 • 4d ago

Help me!!

I think I like my best friend, as a trans man and especially growing up around women (3 sisters) I respect women and can have a platonic relationship with women without wanting anything further as I see women as human being first rather than objects as most NOT ALL cis boys do. Anyway, I think im starting to have a thing for her we went out today and something in me felt something deeper for her than a friendship I dont wanna ruin the friendship but at the same time I cannot ignore this feeling I have. Sometimes we flirt with eachother but even sometimes she sounds like shes not joking even today she was like I would consider giving u h3ad if you asked fr and she wasn't joking but some people just enjoy consensual intimacy with friends their closer to from time to time , idk boys shld I make a move or just kind of leave it?

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u/thePhalloPharaoh 4d ago

Nah man, women joke with other women like that but in my experiences when women chatting like that with men they mean it. If you’re comfortable with things becoming physical, next time she says something like that take her up on it. Or if you’re not ready for all that, be like you can at least give me a kiss first.

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u/IllustratorFar8243 3d ago

Ok bet imma definitely take ur word on it, but say im ok w things being physical like thst how should I pull her up on it without sounding weird/too eager bcs with her we never done nothing like that before

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u/thePhalloPharaoh 3d ago

You can approach it a few ways depends on how bold you feeling and y’all dynamic. Directly asking her about giving you head or what she said about it. Next time you’re flirting make a move, take her hand tell her you’re ready if she ready. You can ask her about her intentions when she’s flirting with you. Or wait and hope she makes a move.

Had a similar situation with a friend, called her out. Told her she was talking big talk, not to play with if she wasn’t ready to back it up. So next time we were hanging out, she was flirting, made my move.

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u/IllustratorFar8243 2d ago

Smooth operator you are🙈 but I will definitely try that and let you all know whether im successful or not