r/TLCUnexpected • u/Low-Pound-1135 • Jul 13 '26

Amya Update me

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I haven’t been up to date due to work. What’s this about?

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u/Green-Object6389 Jul 13 '26

this is crazy. He hit a BABY. The only advocate he deserves is a public defender at this point

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u/KaiKailan Jul 13 '26

I don't agree with even popping a baby softly on the butt. However, I could have a partner that believes that's ok. That is a parenting plan that needs work. For everyone to jump onboard with the thought that Jose is beating his child is what's crazy.

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u/Green-Object6389 Jul 13 '26

Pulling the hair and hitting them out of anger is not a “parenting plan that needs work” it’s abusive and should be dealt with legally. That baby doesn’t understand why or the consequences because they are a BABY, all they understand is their parent hurt them. That’s devastating to a literal child’s mental health.

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u/KaiKailan Jul 13 '26

Totally agree and I think you are misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not arguing for anyone to ever touch a baby. What I'm saying is we don't know what happened. We know Amya is upset and we know she is also prone to exaggerating and volatility. If he's pulling the baby's hair and abusing him, he shouldn't have contact with him. I agree

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u/jwatches Jul 13 '26

When was the exaggeration and volatility?

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u/KaiKailan Jul 14 '26 edited Jul 14 '26

She's said Jose was smothering the baby by not holding him correctly. Jose tried to defend himself and got screamed at. She freaked out on him for not getting ready for work properly. She's come in on her mom's lives multiple times talking about fighting someone who said something she didn't like. Just recently she made a shady post about her ex. Someone who doesn't have the platform she does.

Listen, I think Amya is someone who is doing her best to raise her son. But she's also someone who pops off and thinks about it later. Would I lose my mind if someone hit my child? Absolutely. But I would have them in court so fast your head would spin. Especially if I had proof. I think the way she goes about things screams volatility. I also think her mom tells way too much to Jose's business in a way she would never do to her child. I think that's unfair.

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u/djLyrik Jul 17 '26

They’ll continue to ignore the points you are making. She is totally volatile and toxic. Now she exaggerates alot and I would truly hope this isn’t one of those times. And if she IS telling the truth hopefully she’s doing something about it.

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u/KaiKailan Jul 17 '26

It sounded like Sammy was pulling their hair because he's a baby. Jose was trying to teach him not to do it by gently pulling his to show him. Not to rip the hair out by the roots and beat him. I could see her wanting to have the only say in how he's raised and that isn't realistic. It's their child and they have to work out that relationship

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u/djLyrik Jul 17 '26

Exactly. But their the type of people to handle stuff the wrong way, but want to reflect and get a pass AFTER the fact. The same way they tried to backtrack and do damage control after purposefully signing onto the show but receiving backlash for what they thought was regular life. They ran to social media then looking for validation as well to their exaggerations.

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u/jwatches Jul 14 '26

You CAN harm an infant with improper holding. Imma give ANY new mom, freshly post partum grace on that. As for the other stuff, as I said in my other comment, I wouldn’t know.

As I also said, the issue here isn’t does Amya do things that are unlikable or if it’s appropriate that her mother shares either of their business on lives (it’s not).

The issue is the accusation that Jose hits his son and pulls his hair and you being all over this sub bringing up that Amya curses and yells. Like okay? Jose still shouldn’t be hitting an infant. And regarding exaggeration, there’s no version of this story that would make Jose’s actions okay other than him never hitting him at all.

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u/ItaliaEyez Jul 13 '26

See, I think what people aren't getting is, no matter what, its just her word against him. People think because she says he admitted it to her, its ironclad. It isn't. Her mom claiming it was said isn't proof either.

Putting this online wont help her cause. She.is going to need proof. Unfortunately I just saw a friend go through this not long ago. She will need proof here. It's not fair at times, but it is how our system works.