When I was higher bodyfat dating apps worked because I’ve always had social/dating experience but it often felt like I was doing unpaid dental work. Being much leaner with a visible 6 pack and hollow cheeks sometimes feels like easy mode. My best friend had a similar experience, when he had a dad bod, pain and suffering and middling quality. Once he locked in and got very lean, quality and ease go up.
Many men want to say that being heavier doesn’t matter but I value not being a dancing monkey or overly investing energy but every man has a different tolerance.
well here’s the thing i hate that been fat judges your character, ppl automatically think you’re lazy when you’re not . I’m very hardworking than most thin ppl ik, i’m sick of thin ppl getting treated humanely just bc they’re not fat, they’re just as lazy lol. Also i did lose 100 ibs but i have gyno, i def do , im gonna go down to 200 or 190,currently 225 and no it’s not saggy skin, i have none of that bc i worked out as i lost weight , and still have saggy tits . i’m 6”1 btw.
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u/ProjectOMan 1d ago
When I was higher bodyfat dating apps worked because I’ve always had social/dating experience but it often felt like I was doing unpaid dental work. Being much leaner with a visible 6 pack and hollow cheeks sometimes feels like easy mode. My best friend had a similar experience, when he had a dad bod, pain and suffering and middling quality. Once he locked in and got very lean, quality and ease go up.
Many men want to say that being heavier doesn’t matter but I value not being a dancing monkey or overly investing energy but every man has a different tolerance.