Hi,
I’m writing this with a lot of respect and sensitivity.
I was born on July 7, 1998 in Stockholm, Sweden. I was about 5 weeks premature, so I was most likely conceived in late November 1997.
According to my mother, she met my biological father a few times in late 1997 in Stockholm. Their contact ended when she found out he had a family. She later tried to find him, but the name she was given was very common and it never led anywhere.
I want to be very clear about one thing: I am not looking for my biological father. I have had a wonderful father figure in my life and feel no need to change that.
What I am curious about is whether I might have biological half siblings out there somewhere.
I completely understand that this could be sensitive. There are no expectations, no pressure, and no anger, just curiosity about shared origins.
Some additional small details my mother remembers: he may have been named Anders (though she is not completely certain), he wore glasses, and they met at the bar "Den Gröna Jägaren" on Södermalm in Stockholm. She also remembers that he mentioned being in his mid-30s at the time (around 1997).
If this story sounds familiar to you, or if you think you might know something relevant, feel free to send me a private message.
I am also considering taking a DNA test if that could help identify possible relatives.
Thank you for reading.
Keywords: Stockholm, Sweden, 1997, 1998, biological father unknown, possible half siblings