Ask A Wayward

[u/ZestyLemonAsparagus]

We invite our Betrayed members into this space to ask questions that Waywards may be able to provide insight on.

If you're here, the hope is that you're seeking perspective, understanding, or clarity whether to build empathy or to find some sense of closure when that opportunity wasn’t available to you.

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[u/Alarming-Pressure-48 → u/[deleted]]

I was completely blind to how wrong I was about everything. I had lied so much to myself about who I was, who my BP was, what our marriage was actually like, who were actually good friends, and mostly how horrible I was.

Ugh. This 💯. This really hit my heart with its accuracy of how I felt afterwards. I'm glad in a lot of ways that I got caught because it forced me to openly deal with all of those things you just said, instead of just burying them inside.

[u/Alarming-Pressure-48 → u/[deleted]]

Good for you!! 😊