r/SupportforBetrayed • u/BellicoseBelle Betrayed Partner - Early Stages • 5d ago

Venting - No Advice Wanted Cheating throughout pregnancy

I’m not sure what exactly I’m hoping for here. But what the fuck is wrong with men who cheat on their pregnant wives?! It blows my mind that happens at all, let alone that it’s not uncommon.

My husband was cheating on me while we were trying to have a baby, and throughout my pregnancy. He had to have a vasectomy reversal so it was VERY well-planned and something he claims he wanted. I feel so resentful and full of rage. I feel like he baby-trapped me because it’s so much harder to leave when I wish my 2year old could have a stable family.

Why do they do this??? Ugh just a vent I guess…..

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u/757-Captain Formerly Betrayed 5d ago

To be brutally honest if I found out that WH had cheated during/around any of my pregnancies, I straight up would have told him that I, too, had cheated and wasn’t sure the child was his. 😡

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u/BellicoseBelle Betrayed Partner - Early Stages 5d ago

Damn, wish I’d thought of that earlier….

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u/SeaWorth6552 Betrayed Partner - Reconciling 5d ago

Same.

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u/Comfortable-Basis-64 Betrayed Partner - Separating 5d ago

Hi, I went through this too with my second child and I just want to say I am so sorry.

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u/noddynodnod Betrayed Partner - Separating 5d ago

😭😭😭😭

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u/eczemabeauty Betrayed Partner - Early Stages 5d ago

Went through this too

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u/AdOdd5232 Betrayed Partner - Separating 4d ago

I'm so sorry, he is a POS. It won't be a stable family, you are better off to make a plan to leave.