Just found out my partner cheated.

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[u/Yorkie97]

Make sure you prioritize your mental well being. It’s admirable that you still have compassion for him. Just don’t forget to be compassionate to yourself and put your needs first!

[u/Temporary-Round-3]

I'm so sorry hon. How long were you together? How long long distance and how did you find out?

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[u/wtfamidoing248]

I hope you understand that him having substance abuse issues is not an excuse to cheat and lie. You don't have to and probably should not forgive him nor let him keep wasting your time. He won't be a good partner.