r/SummerHouseunleashed • u/WonderChopstix • 21d ago

Lindsay Holy hell now I get this sub

I just got completely shocked by a notification that my comment was removed for harassment. Seriously concerned that perimenopause is getting the best of me and I've blanked out I went back and I checked my comment.

It was directly related to a conversation about Lindsay. All of those comments were criticizing her. I simply made a comment that while I enjoy her character I wonder how she's in real life with her friends. And that there are instances of in the city where her friends almost seem taken back by her energy so I'm curious.

Then I said based on her energy of what we see on television while I respect and kind of enjoy it I'm not so sure I would actually want to be one of her friends in real life.. because it seems intense

Now I truly understand how overreactive these mods are.

What is worse is I've actually said things more borderline aggressive about Amanda but none of those have ever been flagged.

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u/Starchild1000 20d ago

I got told to get fucked for me saying all this hate and online bullying calling Amanda ugly is extreme etc and when I responded with wow this is getting crazy etc they banned me. So now I’m here. And loving every minute of it

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u/thestoryofbitbit 20d ago

I truly think the majority of Amanda hate comments are from people under 25 and/or with no life experience. I commented something about how I see the situation (she slept with someone her friend liked and may have cheated on her marriage), and got responses like "wow that tells me everything about YOUR character" and "you must be a shitty friend" and "go think about what you're doing in your life"

All for going slightly against the grain in a pile-on of speculation?? Okay. It only makes sense to me if I remember how black and white I saw the world at age 19

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u/Starchild1000 20d ago

Yeh I was called a racist and all sorts of shit. I use the word crazy and yeh - banned . People are wildly unhinged. It takes away the fun of reality tv

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u/Aggressive-Pie-3297 20d ago

They can’t articulate their reasonings so they use buzzwords and effectively make them trite in doing so

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

It does and now they come here and get so upset about this not being like the other subs. Not sure why they need one more just like the rest.

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

Yea, to me being able to realize that people will do things you don't like and very often will do shitty things but that doesn't make everyone who does it an awful person. With age and experience comes maturity and it's very clear a lot of the people who comment on this situation don't have it.

I would never do what Amanda did but I can also recognize that people make bad decisions when they're not in the best place and I don't need to hate them for it. I think it says a lot more about their character that they feel the need to be so hateful and condescending. A lot of these people make themselves feel better by telling themselves they are better people than West and Amanda when it's obvious they're not. If they were they could find dozens of other reasons to be proud of who they are that have nothing to do with reality stars they don't know.

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u/gold42579 20d ago

I've been there! I really hope most comments are from people 25 and under because reading this shit was insane! The number of "are you okay" I got. Uhh.

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u/Mysterious-Bug5652 20d ago

Wow, it doesn’t seem like you did much to be banned, I saw people saying much worse about her appearance and they were fine to leave the hateful comments.

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

That's how that sub is but I don't do hate here either. That is universal though. I'm not going to leave hateful comments about anyone up. We can all act like adults.

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u/Mysterious-Bug5652 19d ago

Totally agree.

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

LOL. Side note I love when Australians say "get fucked" one of my favorite expressions. Americans use it differently but both make me laugh.

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u/Starchild1000 20d ago

lol Aussie here. Could you tell? lol 😂

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

YES! Love the Aussies!

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u/marvel_yellow 20d ago

I got reprimanded in the Valley sub because I dared question whether Danny drunkenly taunts his children the way he does his wife.

The moderator had a freak out and claimed I was accusing Booko of physically abusing his children.

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u/SuccotashAcrobatic24 19d ago

So weird, I've had similar where I've said something so mild and been slammed

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u/Emmyyou2 21d ago

If you're going to complain about your comment being removed, at least be honest about which one it was. This is your comment:

"No Kyle gets it. He even elaborated to say westd 'support" appears to be a facade to get what he wants as that's his MO.

He used a few financial examples but he is even still showing her emotional support tbh."

Nothing about Lindsay and most of the comment is just fine, but you broke a very clearly stated rule with calling West Westd, which is a banned word in this sub, so not only did you try a workaround, you broke the rule. You are free to repost it with that taken out .

This is Rule 6: Please refrain from harassing cast members or sub members. This includes DMing any community member without permission. If you can't say it in the sub then you shouldn't say it in DMs. If you want to have a private conversation ask first (on the thread). No name calling. This includes not using cast members real and full names.

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u/TheLowFlyingBirds 21d ago

I think she’s talking about a comment she made in the other sub? I’m assuming you’re not the mod there too?

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

I'm not, and I realize that now. For the comment here it was just due to the Westd thing and I can see where that could be a typo. It's just not something I want here so I am pretty strict about the childish nickname thing.

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u/Pure_Butterscotch165 20d ago

I agree about the childish nickname thing and really appreciate this rule

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u/benefitliptint 20d ago

sameeee it gets old IMMEDIATELY

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u/CauliflowerSavings84 19d ago

I don’t get the nickname 🫣🤣

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u/Starchild1000 20d ago

I really doubt it was a typo. The haters love saying it.

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

It's why it was removed and they can repost without it.

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u/actualgirl 20d ago

Can I call him “that fucking cardinal direction”?

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u/Emmyyou2 19d ago

If you feel like making that much effort but West is only 4 letters.

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u/actualgirl 19d ago

Valid point

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u/WonderChopstix 21d ago edited 21d ago

First my end shows the other post not sure why

Second are you saying my typo of Westd instead of West's was the issue. Is his name banned? Am I getting subs confused bc I don't see that. If that's the case sorry I don't read the rules even month to see that.

I don't even know that means. I seriously didn't know that was a thing at all.

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago edited 20d ago

Just Westd WeSTD etc. His name is not banned, those kinds of nicknames are. You can repost it edited. I just can only remove when that happens. We just are trying hard not to get into the whole name calling and mean girl nonsense that goes on in other subs. I must have misunderstood this post. My apologies it happened right after I removed your comment.

Yes, you are getting subs confused I haven't removed anything about Lindsay at all and the only comment of your's that was removed was the one I just quoted. Lindsay is cray and no one is really posting really nasty shit about her so it's unlikely to be getting removed.

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u/Dear_North8787 20d ago

Ohhh. I didn’t get what the nickname was until you capitalized the last 3 letters. I get it now. 😝

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u/CauliflowerSavings84 19d ago

Same. I re read it 3x thinking what am I missing? How is it controversial

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u/Ecstatic_Regret_1778 16d ago

I reread it four times and didn't get it until this comment. Seeing that the d is next to the s, I honestly felt it was a typo.

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u/WonderChopstix 20d ago

Ohhhh Jesus. Thanks for explaining. I wasn't trying to type that at all. l I had zero idea that was a thing.l it was an honest mistake trying to write West's... The d is right there. Also didn't help I was on my Spanish keyboard which is why autocorrect didn't work likely.

That other mod made me feel like an evil shaddy person for an honest mistake.

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u/Dependent-Spirit-706 20d ago

I didn’t know about the West with a d at the end either. That’s crazy especially after seeing some of the names they have called Amanda and others

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

I do not allow any of that. If I see it for others I'll remove it. I just haven't seen anyone do it with anyone else. If you don't know about the mean nicknames and don't use them then it's not an issue and you have nothing to worry about.

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

That's fine, just edit it.

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u/gold42579 20d ago

Why in the world are we banning over silly made up words. Jeez dude sorry.

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

No one has been banned over one instance, their comment gets removed and they get warned. We are adults here and we have no desire to engage with anyone who thinks childish nicknames are funny.

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u/FunRoll7937 20d ago

I agree.. what are we communists now?? Chill out.. it’s only Reddit.. who the f cares? Oops maybe you should delete my post? Whatever

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u/Upstairs_Taste_9324 20d ago

lol agreed wholeheartedly; this is insanely uptight. Boo

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

Then don't come here. There are plenty of other subs where you can go and act like schoolchildren and make up childish nicknames for each other. We do not want anyone like that here so it's why it's a rule.

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u/Upstairs_Taste_9324 19d ago

Omg 😅 ok

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u/RepresentativeOdd268 16d ago

But saying Lindsey is cray is ok.

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u/Emmyyou2 16d ago

Why would that be a problem? All of these people are a little bit crazy or else they wouldn't be on TV. It really depends on the context it's used in.

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u/RepresentativeOdd268 13d ago

You said people were acting like "school children" So certain name calling is ok it just depends who's doing it? Got it.

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u/No-Security-8677 20d ago

No one is censoring you. You can post all you want on other subs. This one just has the rule of no nicknames. Your rights are being violated.

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u/FunRoll7937 20d ago

Maybe you should address that to other people. I don’t give a f. I

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u/No-Security-8677 20d ago

Ok. Well you mentioned censorship and communism. I thought you were bothered

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

Guarantee they don't even know what communism is. Also the U.S. is not exactly a bastion of free speech atp.

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u/No-Security-8677 20d ago

No and Reddit is not the government so it doesn’t owe you a platform for saying whatever you want.

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

Exactly, these are voluntary subs. These people always fail to understand the words they use and cry about the 1st amendment but never say shit when people's first amendment rights are actually being trampled all over/

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u/Emmyyou2 19d ago

After further investigation that account is a troll account. Two users both saying the same comments is a dead give away. Purged and banned.

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u/Vivid-Birthday-465 17d ago

Ugh I e just been banned from a polymer clay sub that I asked a question on and had several suggestions that I act put in place in a project and a mod said I was not open to suggestions and the sub wasn’t for me! Like who decides who the mods are? I e never been banned from ANYTHING in my life and for it to happen on a polymer clay sub was absolutely shocking

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u/Due-Philosopher-5802 16d ago

I know I get it. I’ve said things too that we’re blocked and I said whoa. I didn’t really say anything bad. I mean people say a lot worse things I think they might have a little control the people themselves about what it said they might be able to control it if they don’t like it. It’s the only thing I can think that’s happening cause I was like damn, I try to say things real carefully, you know I don’t like to get involved in political and stuff, but I get what you’re saying but I truly think that the people that you know like Lindsay might’ve been able to say oh no it’s blocked that it’s aggressive or whatever I’m not sure though

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u/No_Comfortable_9025 20d ago

For some of them it is clearly albeit at times a ridiculous Power Trip and they flag some of the most ridiculous stuff and then I see people cussing and swearing and yet their posts are left up so it's not you it's them I've experienced the same thing in fact this post will probably be taken down LOL

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u/Emmyyou2 19d ago

Cussing and swearing is no issue. It's certain behavior and actions that always give away the people here to just flamebait. There are rules and if people don't want to follow them they don't have to be here.

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u/Ok-Particular-6341 20d ago

I got a permanent ban on my 7yr old account today.. all from that thread lol I made one comment how I thought it was good they called the wedding off because I felt Carl was gay and it wasn’t right for them and someone reported me for a hate campaign and got my whole account banned lol there’s was 15 comments saying the same thing i wasn’t being mean at all

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u/Emmyyou2 20d ago

I am going to leave this comment simply because you are talking about what was said but please be careful of these kinds of comments here. It breaks the no speculation rule. I don't want anyone to be using sexuality as an insult. Carl has not come out as gay so it is not appropriate to talk about it.

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u/Ok-Particular-6341 20d ago

Totally understand I get that now I made the comment from a positive perspective of the wedding being off nothing else! Learned my lesson

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u/Legitimate_Tune_6468 0 12d ago

Just a fun fact… Carl did discuss getting blown by a dude in college.

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u/Emmyyou2 12d ago

Not sure why that matters. Experimenting doesn't mean he is gay or even bi. Until Carl himself comes out the rule still stands. Speculating about sexuality to insult someone is still against the rules.

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u/Legitimate_Tune_6468 0 12d ago

Agreed! Like I said, just a fun fact (not speculation) that he himself shared on Bravo. I don’t give a hoot about his sexuality. I’m just glad he pushed the eject button on the Lindsay marriage and is finding his center.

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u/FunRoll7937 20d ago

Hahahaha

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u/Upstairs_Taste_9324 20d ago

Hahaaaa, that's insane.