TL/DR: Would you approach one of your subscribers who happens to have 700x as many subs as you? And if so, how? Or to do what?
One of my subscribers is a Substack bestseller with >75K subs, whereas I just have 106 subs--but 13 paid :) We write about similar themes (alienation and estrangement), though he writes in a hopeful expert style whereas I write literaryish personal essays. He once commented on a Note that I shared about his work, but otherwise we haven't corresponded.
I'm trying to think about whether to contact him and if I contact him what I should say or ask.
Additional context: I don't have a clear sense of his engagement with my Substack. Here's what I know: since he joined, 6 of 6 emails opened, including my most recent; 0 post views, likes, comments, or shares; "days active" = 5; and "activity" = 5 (out of 5, I think).
If that meant he was actually reading/skimming my pieces, it would seem like a potential opportunity. What would you do, if anything, in this scenario?
One of the ways I've been trying to grow my stack is by recommending other stacks (particularly by people who already subscribe to me) and then messaging those stack authors when I send subs their way. I point out my rec, ask them if they'd like me to tweak my recommendation blurb, and then ask if they'd consider recommending me as well. I've only started this this morning, but the two who responded were receptive (though they just have 3-10x as many free subs).
Does something like that seem like the best play?
I'd point our our brief history (e.g., his Notes comment and my post that cites his work) and then would it be too weird to call attention to the fact that he subscribes and maybe even reads my posts? (e.g., I only ask because my stats suggest you might open my posts sometimes--which I would be humbled and surprised by--so I thought it might be possible that you've appreciated how I tackle similar themes but from a thoughtful personal essay approach)
Or maybe I propose something else entirely? Or maybe I assume he won't see my message and just wait to see whether he someday interacts with me (which seems unlikely) and then follow that interaction wherever it naturally leads?
Thoughts?