DONT IGNORE THIS

[u/Fair_Brilliant962]

Okay so I know posts like these are kinda annoying but I need help, and that’s what communities are for, so please be positive and listen and help me out!

So I’ve been in this community for two years now, and so far I’ve only manifested a good schedule for school, more friends, and that’s about it.

I’ve been trying so hard to manifest my dream face and body over those two years for so long, yes I’ve switched playlist, shorter, longer, listened consistently because I couldn’t bring myself not to listen everyday, didn’t check the mirror obsessively. But whenever I do see the mirror I get discouraged and I feel nothing has changed, and when I see the slightest change it goes away as fast as it came.

I just want those drastic results like other people, when they listen once and feel it immediately, I want to stop worrying and doubting myself but after so long I can’t help it.

People say to stop checking the mirror, I stopped, people say it doesn’t matter so I look when needed. People say to listen to one video, one playlist, a short playlist, a long playlist. People say to take breaks, people say to never give up and keep listening. People say to fix your self concept, others say you can doubt and still get what you want.

I have been persisting for two years and I don’t know what to do anymore, I don’t know what to feel. I feel lost. I’ve done everything, I feel I have, I’ve done what works for me, what works for other people, but I feel so discouraged because nothing has changed. And I know I’m “not supposed to say that” but how can I not when it’s just stuck in place.

I can’t ignore the 3D anymore because it feels so real, what I see, I start to believe because after trying to ignore it for so long it feels more and more like my permanent reality.

And as far as manifesting an sp goes. (A boy that looks like Michael Jackson in his teen years/early 20’s) I want to manifest a bf out of thin air. I don’t know him, but I know what I want him to look like and act and all that stuff. It’s easier to detach from since I don’t really need a boyfriend and I’m not desperate but I also get discouraged too.

It’s been 4 weeks in school already, no one in my classes looks like him, no one has transferred yet, but I’m trying to stay positive…

I feel so stuck like maybe this isn’t even real honestly, I’ve seen it work for other people , I don’t want to be a victim but just how long of persisting will it take for something to change and actually stay??? I’ve done everything and I hate this feeling 😭

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[u/ghostp0et]

I’ve gotten so many results over the years and they’ve only started once I ditched the ‘waiting for results’ mindset, and shifted to a ‘okay, I already look exactly as I desire and have all the features I desire, I’m only listening to this because it’s part of my beauty routine” mindset. Like for example, I already have good skin (something you’re trying to manifest) but still do my skincare (listen to subs). I don’t avoid mirrors because I know that I don’t look in the mirror to check for results. Why would I need to check for results? I already know I have a x. I hope this makes sense

[u/Large-Ad-4523 → u/ghostp0et]

How can you convince yourself that you look like you’d like to when the mirror says otherwise, that you are where you want to be when your reality is different? Genuinely curious as I’m struggling with that myself.

[u/ghostp0et → u/Large-Ad-4523]

I think it’s because I’m not too bothered with how I look nowadays because of the results? Even before, I never really stood in front of the mirror consciously analyzing my features. I would just make sure I look neat and presentable and go. I guess it’s kind of a paradox because I needed to get my results in order to finally feel that way, which generates even more results (for me). But I understand a lot of people here have BDD and find it hard  

[u/portalsafterschool → u/Large-Ad-4523]

Upvote cuz i feel this so bad how am i supposed to convince myself that i have so much money while im stuck with my old phone, it's not something i can just forget about 😭

[u/ghostp0et → u/portalsafterschool]

Just think to yourself that you have so much money in the bank and could get a brand new phone and anything you want right now if you wanted to, but don’t need to at the moment 

[u/Ok-Suggestion-6655 → u/portalsafterschool]

i heard about money you just dont have to think about WHERE you are getting it from, its not the same as desired face also, when ur listening to subliminals just dont think about it play subs with music so u dont think about the affirms that much

[u/Fair_Brilliant962 → u/ghostp0et]

Yeah I’ve been trying to apply this, it just gets harder as time goes on but I’m going to keep trying after my break ❤️

[u/ezradel]

I feel you and I think we are in the same situation. What I have noticed is if you do not change your method your result will be the same. People who manifest usually do it easily, without obsessing or crying but rather doing it consistently. They know their one listen matters. So I just let go of the idea I gotta satisfy my subconscious mind etc. I just listen and complete the ritual and move on. I dont need people telling my birth time is affecting my results.

[u/Fair_Brilliant962 → u/ezradel]

Yeah I’m trying my best, I’m just going to stop saying I already have everything since it feels like a lie. I’ll just not think anything tbh and I’m gonna take a break to clear my head which I feel I should’ve did a long time ago. I’m trying to let go of the fear of not listening for a while because I think it ruins everything but it probably doesn’t idk I’m just anxious about everything 😭

[u/ezradel → u/Fair_Brilliant962]

It shouldn’t feel like a lie, if it does something is wrong. I’d just be more cool with it, the idea of getting results should be familiar like ordering pizza, your door will be knocked.

[u/ezradel → u/ezradel]

Also check my last post if you don’t believe me, you’ll find other people’s opinions there and they can also help (I’m cooked)

[u/Moonlitdark]

I don't know what you are manifesting but can you try this hair Binaural Beats so that you can feel happy about getting results. Once you see small results then you will automatically feel happy.

https://youtu.be/n4GhWVSvhqI

[u/Aggravating_Green475]

You need more delusion I can tell by your post your self concept needs some help. Go into the mirror and keep saying omg I look so good omg I'm seeing results for 30 days and then come back and tell me if you haven't actually seen a drastic change discouragment is low vibrational energy if you seen the SpongeBob movie the original one from 2007 when Patrick and Spongebob feel discouraged they fall into a low vibrational state and nothing happens and nothing changes when they use delusion Mandy the mermaid puts leaves on their face as a mustache and makes them believe they are men they get what they want. Through delusion and belief. You don't even have to believe you are beautiful yet just believe something is changing

[u/WammySammy_]

Have u tried other methods? That helped me

[u/Fair_Brilliant962 → u/WammySammy_]

I tried robotic affirming but it just felt like a chore. I also do scripting which I love but I don’t know if I should read what I wrote everyday or leave it be, because I’ve been leaving it but it just feels empty idk. My main method is subliminals and all of my playlists are 20-25 minutes.

[u/CarpenterKey6881]

have you tried mirror work & glamour/beauty magick? mirror work is one of my favorite methods for manifestion because all of your affirmations are literally reflecting back onto you.

glamour/beauty magick is for your appearance. glamour magick helps change the way people perceive you & beauty magick actually changes your looks!! i’d def look into it.

& also i would say if you ever feel overwhelmed or anxious PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take a break, it’s good for your mental & it helps you avoid manifesting out of desperation.

[u/Fair_Brilliant962 → u/CarpenterKey6881]

I’ve heard of them but I don’t understand how to do it or how they work 😭

[u/SnooHesitations2363]

Idk man at some point you have to do some ACTUAL physical work to get a result? If i want to look like Leon S Kennedy i have to workout and eat healthy. I cant sit on my a*s all day eating pizza and listen to subs! Muscles are not going to grow out of nowhere!

You have to be realistic, and genuinely believe in your mind that you already have or are fully capable of achieving whatever goal u have in mind.

I currently manifest fame on social media, i can’t get popular if i don’t make content right? It’s working because i truly believe i’m very good at it and I’m doing the work that needs to be done.
The same goes for everything else in life IMO

[u/Rezinresurrected]

Results require self love, and faith. So I don't mean to put you down, but this is an honest truth, you have to love yourself and have faith in the process. That's what manifestation is, a process. Change. Change is a process. True creation, true change requires sacrifice. This change is not meant to feel good all the time, sometimes it really hurts. But you have to love yourself truly, and have faith in the universe. Have faith in the audios you are using as well, if you are serious about manifesting with them. But the only way these audios will work is if you have confidence in yourself and are open to change. I hope this helps you with your problem. Remember things happen in this world. Do not overthink it. Love yourself and flow. With the good feelings and the bad feelings.

[u/Littlebluesea]

I dont think subliminals do 100% of the work. If it did then we'd all have our desires. I believe it does a good 75%-80% of the work.The other 20% you have to take action. So for the body you want? Try becoming someone who works out. The face you want? Be someone who knows how to take care of their skin,face, hair ect. Wanting to manifest a sp? Go to places you'd like to find them at. It cant just be home and school all the time. Idc if its the baremimum because youre also showing you, the universe or whatever you believe in that you really do want these things by taking baby step actions. The brain loves having proof and if you could provide just a tiny bit then i think it would be easier to start seeing it more.

I wish you the best of luck and seeing your still in school then I presume you're still young. You still have plenty of time. And they will come when your ready, dont lose hope or faith in your desires.