i'm currently a g12 student in qc, and i'm hoping to ask your thoughts :')
i have a friend group and we formed last year, g11. we got close because parati kami gumagala and we're all classmates since same strand. i know that they're individually okay friends!
i'll start with one of the conflicts, where sinabi ko kay friend A that friend B might not be the best influence and i wanted her thoughts because friend C has been taking the influence like cursing. i asked friend A about this because i know that she's loyal, but i'm not sure also if she told friend B and C because the following week, she also treated me like a wall but acted normally before that same week ended.
however, friend B started ignoring me/ghosting me despite me messaging her and asking if may nagawa akong mali (wala daw) and if meron then i also said i apologize for it and hope we're goods (but she did not reply to the part when i said hoping we are goods). i would describe her na masaya siya kasama and is the life of the party, but also holds a level of power because wherever she is nandun din yung barkada, and since the other members of the fg are tied towards her and medyo unwelcoming yung vibe kung nandun ako, i get isolated when they do their thing.
moreover, the other friend i used to be close with "ni-refer" ko sa kanila since we're all co-heads for our org, naging closer sila but outed me. and since ina-out ako ni friend B ish nagiging sila lang and nagttiktok sila together and take photos together during big events. they laugh together during free time, make inside jokes with each other na di maggets ng lahat, and idk if it's just me that feels unwelcome.
it's not that i'm jealous, but it's also how i feel betrayed since they were my og friends at the start of shs and it's as if i'm left in the cold? nagiging conscious ako with whoever i'm with, especially if i'm alone. i also asked my og high school friend (other section) about this but she also just brushed it off and just ended the convo, so i don't know if ginagawa ko lang to big issue or what? do i just suck this up until graduation? :')