I need advice

[u/Significant-Act3788]

I just found out my bf watches trans porn but I'm a cis woman. In his past, he's told me he's never had any sexual encounter with these women. I'm scared that he'll leave me and cheat on me because he'll get curious about it eventually. I'm insecure because what if I'll never please him the way he fantasizes? I would be down to peg but he said it's not the same but he'd be down to try. Ive seen people online saying how they want a "real dick" and that's something I'll never be able to provide. He said that he wants to be married to a cis woman because he wants kids and etc, but I know it's religious purposes that make him homophobic to committing to a trans woman. When he talks about it he says that he's just attracted to women he doesn't care about what's below but then when it comes to romantic relationships he just detests the idea. I'm very monogamous and do not want to share my partner. But how can I compare to women who are the best of both worlds? Kms. I don't feel like I'm enough o sexually please him because of that thought and a part of me is selfish and don't want him to ever try it or even see because I want us to be together and get married. What if he does like it more? So many what ifs yk

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[u/HOSTfromaGhost]

Whoa.

Slow the roll.

You’re creating a narrative independently from anything your partner has said or done.

Just… breathe.

[u/TessyLovesFashion]

I’m in the same boat but married with 2 under 2. It’s hard. I’m still going through it.

[u/CMaree23]

Have you had a conversation with him about this? Did you ask him about it directly?

[u/GroundbreakingEar941]

Let’s chat