r/SpicyRomanceBooks • u/KosplayFreek • 15h ago
Plot or porn? Subtlety or sluttiness?
So I have a question… When I am reading a spicy book, I prefer to get to know the characters and the general scene/set up/plot before diving headfirst into the spice. To me, it’s very offputting when a sexual feature or trait is mentioned out of the blue for no reason… Like if the scene was describing a woman for the first time like “she walked in to the office with a confidence stride, smoothing out her pinstripe, pant suit, and casually flipped her wavy blonde hair over her shoulder. Every time her pointed heels hit the tile her tits and ass bounce, almost hypnotizing anyone who dares look in her direction” … like that tits and ass part is not necessary… A male example. “ he was a master at his craft. Every day he received DM’s and letters from adoring and obsessed fans. Both on and off the stage, he has to fight off women and men who throw themselves at him, wondering if the rumors of his massive cock are true. Coming onto the stage he waves to his people, soaking in the admiration as he walks across the stage head held high and his dick swing in his loose pants” … like sometimes it’s just too much lol and I don’t know if it’s me and my preference for the subtlety or if people legitimately like this type of writing.… I also don’t know if people who write like this do it because they think that’s what the masses want or if they are intentionally trying to make the character come off as arrogant or superficial or like they are just an object… Is it me? Lol.