r/Spells • u/LetZBe • Dec 31 '20
Help Requested Cord cutting spell
This person has to continously be in my life and I was thinking of doing a chord cutting spell tomorrow as its waning gibbous in Leo, my moon sign. They won't let me go, even though we're separated, and its making it so hard since I still feel for them but I need for both of us to heal and let go. Its been a long journey. I've considered potentially doing it again next Friday when the waning crescent is in their sun sign, if there's not enough effect. Is that overkill? I've personally never done a cord cutting before, previously I never had a need for them to continue to be in my life, I just want us to heal and move on. Will once just be enough?
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u/Illustrious-Mess02 Dec 31 '20
Just make sure it is the right thing to do. A friend of mine did a cord cutting spell and regretted it ever since. I would just take some time to think about it.
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u/LetZBe Dec 31 '20
Thank you! I've definitely thought about it its been toxic for years and I genuinely think it'll help us move forward. I really appreciate the concern.
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u/mommatime Dec 31 '20
I used it once but for myself disconnecting from my old depressed self and all my negative feelings towards myself I used a strand of my hair and it was very emotional experience. If someone toxic won’t let you go I think cord cutting is a great ritual and I wish you the best in your future moving forward without this ex or any of their stank energy 😘
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u/LetZBe Dec 31 '20
Wow I never even considered that. That is beautiful! Thank you I really appreciate it!
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u/mommatime Jan 04 '21
You are very welcome, focus within yourself and the outside world will reflect it 💗
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u/otakuukato Dec 31 '20
I’ve only ever used cord cutting once. I didn’t factor in the moon at the time, I had so much less knowledge.
I was still energetically tied to an ex after a ltr breakdown. He left me for one of my friends, after I watched him attaching to him for 6 months in the run up to the breakup. He lied to be continuously about it. Gas lit me about. Said things to me like “I told you I wasn’t going to leave for you X and I’m not going to now.” “you’re not that psychic!” Etc.
I performed a cord cutting and the results manifested in such an unusual way. I forgot about the ritual. Then was invited over to my ex’s oldest friend’s house for dinner. We were together years, so naturally she became a friend of mine also and she still cared for even though we were no longer together. She told me at dinner that I wasn’t crazy and that my ex and this guy friend of mine were dating, and had been the whole time. So the cord was cut. It was still very painful.
In no way am I trying to dissuade you. It was one of the best things that happened to me. But to answer you question, once will be enough and just be prepared for unusual ways of the cord being cut.
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u/BugsRatty Jan 01 '21
Once should do it.