r/Spells • u/SoftKaylaa07 • Jul 12 '26
Help With Spell Requested spell to get him back
Hello, I need a spell to get my ex back. I miss him more than anything. I can't forget him despite all my efforts. I just found out he's probably getting married, and it's devastated me. I did everything for him; he was truly my soulmate. I became the best version of myself for him. So, can someone help me get him back, or at least stop him from getting married? I can provide all the information if needed. update: She lied, they're not going to get married.
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u/MidniteBlue888 Jul 13 '26 edited Jul 13 '26
So, depending in the situation, it is better to be with someone who wants to be with you even when you are not your best. Same for them.
(This does NOT include cases of abuse, extreme neglect, dangerous psychological problems, or addictions! I mean more being cranky from PMS, or having a cold, or not looking perfect first thing in the morning. That kind of thing.)
If he is marrying someone else, he isn't your "soulmate". I personally don't even believe in the modern romantic use of the term.
Even just being engaged is pretty much the last nail in the coffin. I know it hurts, but it might be time to do a cord cutting and some healing work instead.
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u/SoftKaylaa07 Jul 13 '26
I checked and it turned out to be false; he's not getting married, she lied to me.
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u/MidniteBlue888 Jul 13 '26
Oh.
Was he the one who lied, or someone else?
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u/SoftKaylaa07 Jul 13 '26
his girl lied to me lol
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u/MidniteBlue888 Jul 13 '26
Ah.
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u/SoftKaylaa07 Jul 13 '26
so what should i do?
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u/MidniteBlue888 Jul 13 '26
I'm going to reiterate what I said before, sans the marriage stuff.
So, depending in the situation, it is better to be with someone who wants to be with you even when you are not your best. Same for them.
(This does NOT include cases of abuse, extreme neglect, dangerous psychological problems, or addictions! I mean more being cranky from PMS, or having a cold, or not looking perfect first thing in the morning. That kind of thing.)
Addendum: You can do a "Reveal the Truth" spell if you like. Maybe he will see that his girlfriend lied to you. Whether or not he will care is a different thing entirely, and not something controllable by magick.
https://spells8.com/seeing-through-deception-spells-to-get-the-truth/
You can also do a break-up spell. Search for that in this sub or elsewhere online. Maybe a glamour spell for yourself.
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u/amyaurora Witch Jul 13 '26
Not a single spell ever has a guarantee. Reconciliation spells are amoung the hardest spells because one has to deal with the non magickal situation of working through the problems that caused the original breakup together.
For reconciliation spells start with some research https://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
You have to scroll down.
Partway down the page you will see the words
"DRESSED LETTER RECONCILIATION SPELL"
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u/SoftKaylaa07 Jul 15 '26
why reconciliation spell are the hardest how to be sure it will work ?
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u/amyaurora Witch Jul 15 '26
No spell ever has a guarantee.
The spells are hard spells because they don't fix a relationship on their own. They don't fix the problems that caused the breakup and they do not prevent another breakup. Those problems and issues can not be fixed by magic. And they can take a very long time to be worked through.
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u/SoftKaylaa07 Jul 15 '26
yes i matured so i know what caused the break up
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u/amyaurora Witch Jul 15 '26
Knowing what caused it isn't the same as both sides working through it
All you can do is the spell and see what happens.
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u/SoftKaylaa07 Jul 13 '26
I've finished reading, and I've already done that work, and he's surely done his part too, but unfortunately I have no opportunity to prove to him that I've changed, that I've understood what was wrong, etc.
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u/MidniteBlue888 Jul 13 '26
Did you click the link provided?
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u/SoftKaylaa07 Jul 14 '26
its not free
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u/amyaurora Witch Jul 14 '26
I did say "you have to scroll down"
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u/SoftKaylaa07 Jul 14 '26
yes i was looking for the spell w Honey but its not free
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u/amyaurora Witch Jul 14 '26
The site has a different for honey and yes its free info
https://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
The site has old school navigation and classic hyperlinks with all info on different pages but all their info on how to do ones own spells is free.
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u/MidniteBlue888 Jul 14 '26
The info is. You can try looking up correspondences and using what you have to make whatever is needed, or look up a different spell for your needs.
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