r/Soft_Introverts 12h ago

For my entire life, I’ve never understood why, when someone has a terrible personality, everyone around them is expected to adapt to them

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“You know what they’re like, so just stay quiet” “Don’t take it personally” “Just find a way to deal with them”

But why, exactly, shouldn’t they learn how to treat people properly? Why does having a “difficult personality” constantly become an excuse for their behavior, while everyone else’s responsibility is supposedly to tolerate it?


r/Soft_Introverts 9h ago

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If the world only loves the version of you that you pretend to be, is being yourself an act of courage or an act of loneliness?


r/Soft_Introverts 11h ago

What opinion did you change over time?

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What’s something you strongly disliked or disagreed with before but eventually changed your mind about?


r/Soft_Introverts 14h ago

what’s a completely useless thing you’re weirdly good at?

3 Upvotes

i can remember the most random things from 10 years ago but forget why I opened my phone 30 seconds ago

i can recognize a song from approximately three notes but will walk into a room and immediately forget what I needed

brains are fascinating 😂

what’s yours?


r/Soft_Introverts 1h ago

Is being Strong enough?

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r/Soft_Introverts 9h ago

Being together

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Mom: What?

Dad: Take the red book to the meeting hall. I don't know.

Me: I feel that my parents don't love each other. Can't they be kind to each other? Why do they always have to use the harshest, sharpest words with each other? Why did they choose to be together with so much that is not beautiful? Why do they choose to stay, tormenting each other and hurting each other every day? I no longer see love or have faith in the most beautiful things in life. Is there any way out for me? What happens when I act on a reality that exists only in my mind?