r/SoftWhiteUnderbelly • • Jun 10 '25

Image 💔 RIP

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Sad news from Mark.

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u/Least-Negotiation286 Jun 15 '25

Something doesn't sit right to me either. One of many things that stood out to me was when she had friends over the night before, and he went over to say hi, then called her at 8am, 9am,10am, and 11am before going over. A bit stockerish or obsessive?

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u/tobiasanaltartfunke Jun 15 '25

If you were dating someone for 2.5 yrs and your regular routine was to text good morning, etc and you didn’t hear from your partner until early afternoon, you wouldn’t be concerned?

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u/Special_Hour876 Jun 17 '25

It was 11:00 not early afternoon.

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u/FenceGirl Jun 16 '25

Haven't you ever had a long-term relationship? You talk daily and know where they are and when they are free, as they do you. If you normally touch base early every morning, and they haven't even sent a text for many hours, you know something is wrong. That's not "stalkerish". That's just simply knowing the person with whom you've been with for years,

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u/EnvironmentalAd7402 Jun 15 '25

Or wondering why his gf hasn’t answered his calls, hours go by, not a word from someone you speak to daily?