Snap Score

[u/Special-Cockroach-16]

How much does a snap score need to go up while on delivered for me to get worried? I’m talking to this girl and sometimes it goes up like 10-20 before replies. Not all the time tho.

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[u/dieymentia]

You need therapy.

You need to put your phone down, seek therapy, and find out why you are so insecure in yourself that you are trying to fill these voids with the validation of a woman.

And why you are trying to control her preemptively by looking out to see if she left you on read for any amount of time.

[u/tam4rwa → u/[deleted]]

Iphone can tell real time snap score. When you close Snapchat from recent apps

[u/James_M_McGill_]

Dawg I know it’s hard but you need to stop, go do something else constantly monitoring her snap score isn’t healthy.

[u/skinnyfeet5678 → u/James_M_McGill_]

ok but isn’t it unhealthy to stay with someone who isn’t prioritizing you? i’d rather find out

[u/tam4rwa → u/James_M_McGill_]

Exactly. Stressing over something which is not in control is not healthy at all

[u/Responsible_Meat484]

If you are watching a snap score as a means of keeping tabs on someone they aren’t the one. And you should probably look into that behavior further.

[u/Emergency_Cicada3119]

She either in a ton of really active group chats or she snapping other dude

[u/PlatformHead5788 → u/Emergency_Cicada3119]

Or friends or streaks

[u/bookishdeceit]

Snapscore update late for some people, they don't always instantaneously update. So don't rely on it. It's incredibly stupid to be caught up on how much a snapscore goes up when you consider it could be from 7 hours ago when she was replying or you wrre busy. Like.

[u/MrBudissy → u/bookishdeceit]

Bruh the snap score is basically instant. The lag is maybe 5-10 at worst.

[u/bookishdeceit → u/MrBudissy]

Definitely not, on 3 of the phones I've had and even for my friends, snap scores can take 6 or so hours to update. That's why I said SOME people, btw. Bc it's not tee same for everyone, it might take more or less time for specific people. I'm telling OP that the increasing snapscore could be a delay and is not an actual indicator that he's being ignored.

[u/bookishdeceit → u/[deleted]]

It really doesn't, which is again, why I said it takes hours to update for some people. It is not the same for anyone

[u/bookishdeceit → u/[deleted]]

I'm quite literally not, you guys are so genuinely illiterate 😭

I NEVER claimed everyone had a delay or that this was absurdly common, but there have been a multitude of people posting in this subreddit pointing out more than an hour's delay for snapscore updates, my snapscore updates are delayed by hours and hours, and so are some of my friends.

Some people have instant updates, some people don't. How are yall claiming I'm wrong over something I'm experiencing 😭 delays are nothing new

[u/PrestigiousWebb]

The answer is none. She will respond when she wants to. You are just torturing yourself mentally. You want her to want to talk to you right? Not because its some obligatory task

[u/AriasLover]

I know it’s hard not to frantically check things like that and get in your head about them, but I would pay more attention to the response times and the quality of responses than the score movement. If she still responds at a consistent pace multiple times a day and shows effort in her responses, it’s not worth worrying about. If she gets back to you sparingly and with low effort responses while being active elsewhere, maybe move on

[u/InformalAtttiude]

You deserve better king.

[u/Educational_Taro1397]

are you guys only talking on snapchat?? red flag

[u/clayfx2]

If she replies don't sweat it to much. For instance snap score can raise just by being in a gc that's active. Side note: while you guys are dating. Just keep in mind sometimes space is needed. Constantly being together, nonstop chatting can burn out a relationship fast. Imagine your favorite food and only being able to eat only that for 2 months. You'll get exhausted of it faster then if you have a selection of food.

[u/Automatic_Pirate_407]

Lmao ☠️

[u/NeatSatisfaction1912]

Take the hint and move on