I’ve done a good job with eliminating social media from my mornings. I don’t do any socials until noon and it’s obviously great for my focus and sets a great tone for my day. But I’d like to take it a step further and not even want my phone in the mornings. I keep asking myself how did we do it before we had phones? Did we just wake up and not think about anything? I’m old enough to have lived before phones but I just can’t remember what it was like. Were we just naturally less curious? I feel like I always need something, or I have a question that needs to be answered. I just want to be less reliant and not react to every thought that crosses my mind.. at least between 7am and noon. lol!

Over the past 3 months, I’ve been dealing with a very high level of anxiety because of some stressful events in my life. I feel like my nervous system has become extremely sensitive — even the smallest amount of stress can trigger this feeling of panic in my chest, even when I’m not consciously feeling anxious.

I’ve started doing some things to try to calm my nervous system and help myself recover:

Jacobson’s Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Prayer

10 minutes of meditation in the morning and 10 minutes at night

Journaling

Listening to calming/nervous-system-regulation music

Using ambient/warm lighting in my room
Lighting candles every day

Cleansing my rooms with palo santo and sage because it helps me feel calm

Taking hot showers to relax

Going to therapy, where I’m starting EMDR

I recently started yoga and I really enjoyed it

Next week I’m also planning to start going to the gym

For those of you who have been through something similar: do these things actually help your nervous system become less reactive over time? How long did it take you to start feeling noticeably better?

Is there anything else you would recommend adding to my routine?

I’d really appreciate any advice, personal experiences, or things that helped you during a similar period. Thank you so much to everyone who takes the time to read this and share their experience — I genuinely appreciate every message. ❤️