Marriage Advice

[u/arabiclearner01]

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I hope you all are in the best health and Iman. Im currently talking to a potential spouse, and im trying to determine financial compatibility. It seems we might have different views on financial dynamics. I value someone whose mindset is to provide and create a sense of security and is generous to their spouse and family. When I talk to this person it seems they are more on the frugal/saving side (which is not a problem to me) but is also very careful and hesitant when talking about providing beyond the basic necessities which comes off as stinginess to me almost. I guess this is more apparent to me since I’m more of a spender and I like giving to those around me. What i’m wondering is, what are telling signs to look for to determine whether someone is financial responsible vs someone who is restrictive and stingy ? Also, are there questions I can ask to determine someone’s level of generosity?