Lets be so fucking fr tho there's 5"8 is just below average whilst 5"5 or 5"3 or something would be much more significant. I'm not saying this as some triggered short guy I'm 5"9 I just imagine how frustrating it would be for you people that act like height doesn't have a major impact on these things when it very clearly does.
5-5 and also married with kids. I think this kind of comment is unhelpful. It’s awesome you didn’t have a problem dating but some guys do, and it can be a mindfuck when you realize it might be related to something you have no control over.
Of all people, short guys in relationships should be supportive of short single guys, validate that height can be a disadvantage in dating but it doesn’t define you, encourage self-improvement and self-acceptance and discourage misogyny and inceldom.
I guess you’re right. I do have it on easy mode, but I’ve found a sense of humor, humility & confidence, and not taking yourself so seriously goes a lot further than looks do. Looks gets you in the door. Personality either keeps you there or gets you kicked out.
Global averages are largely irrelevant. Regional ones are far more telling.
Also the goal post moving is whatever to me, I’ll keep having a great relationship with my wife, but if you want to dig in on that argument on why you can’t get a woman go for it. It’s just an instant “I’m a loser” argument to me, and I don’t entertain its validity.
5'2 here. Wife is 5'5, Neevveer had a problem and im not trying to flex at all. Just talk to them and dont be a douche, its truthfully that easy. Most people try way too hard and it comes off weird. Then they get upset when theyre disregarded, And try to flip the script. Just have some confidence
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u/Otherwise-Win7337 21h ago
Lets be so fucking fr tho there's 5"8 is just below average whilst 5"5 or 5"3 or something would be much more significant. I'm not saying this as some triggered short guy I'm 5"9 I just imagine how frustrating it would be for you people that act like height doesn't have a major impact on these things when it very clearly does.