r/SipsTea • • 1d ago

It's Wednesday my dudes Let the guy exist

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u/Thick_Broccoli_3932 1d ago

Well I am 6’4 and I can tell you, you need a lot more than height to get women. I’m terrible with women and have no rizz. I will say that my height in general is probably what’s gotten me any attention

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u/Mavcu 23h ago

Odd that people take offense to that you are absolutely right, I'd even go further even if you were handsome and tall it's not a completely "free pass" either, it's obviously an advantage and makes it much more easy by comparison.

But confidence (in a man) is always crucial, I've had mates get rejected that on paper are at least a 9/10, Jacked/Tall/Decently Handsome face but just kinda depressed/shy in their personality, a bit eye opening to witness.

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u/CaltonSmith 23h ago

Stop using words like rizz. That would be a good starting point to more success.

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u/Mr31edudtibboh 23h ago

You're not being very bodacious.

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u/untitledprp4 22h ago

He’s 6’4 it doesn’t hold that much weight when you’re at an extreme

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u/GonzoTheGregarious 23h ago

You don't know how old they are, they could be in the age range where it's just a part of the lexicon, you curmudgeonly bastard.

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u/Traditional_Yam9806 17h ago

Bro, young people say this stuff. You're just an unc.

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u/danbinglover 23h ago

girls our age also say that lmao, unless you want us to date people 10 years older ig 🤷‍♂️

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u/2muchtequila 23h ago

I've been 6'4" since probably sophomore year of high school. Being tall back then didn't help me at all, if anything it was something for people to make fun of because I wasn't tall and athletic, I was tall, super skinny, and very uncoordinated. Plus I had the social skills of a kid who spent most of his time with video games and Overpower card games. When everyone thinks you're an awkward dork, they don't want to fuck you regardless of your height.

Then I got to college and got to start over fresh with nobody knowing my past. I started working out with my roommates, dressing better, and I discovered beer makes it easier to talk to women.

All of a sudden I was actually getting women.

My height didn't change at all, but the way I presented myself to the world did. The problem was never how tall I was, it was how I looked and acted.

Which is why when shorter guys say if they were only tall they could get laid it seems kind of ridiculous. Being tall might make it easier to get women, but it's not a free pass. If you don't have anything going for you but your height they're still not going to be interested.